shane4444
Oct 21, 2008, 02:44 PM
My girlfriend and I broke up about a month and a half ago. She has somewhat of a coke problem, where she has to have it every weekend. I t got to a point where I coulnt deal with it anymore and began to get upset about it. She would put us in awkward situations and I would have to take care of her on Sunday night because she would be coming down.
One day I told her I couldn't take it anymore and that something needed to change. She told me she would cut back and not put herself in bad situations when she is doing it.
This is when she began to lie to me about her doing it. I would meet up with her at night and she would hide it from me all night, even though she knew that I knew.
I caught her doing this a few times, but when I would confront her about it she would automatically try to flip it on me and tell me I was controlling and if I didn't like it to leave.
I love this girl more than anything but I know I can't deal with that lifestyle anymore. She is 26 and still acting like a 21 year old.
I completely cut off all communication with her a week ago, and it is getting harder and harder every day not to contact her. I told her last Wednesday I can't talk to her anymore, but 2 times this weekend she texted me, once asking me to meet up with her and another letting me know she hung out with my friend on sat and did coke all night with him and her guy friends from work.
I don't want to contact her but I am worried about her. She was my best friend before we dated and I would be very upset if anything ever happened to her.
I love her, but I know I can't be with her when she is like this. But I miss our time we spent together. Instead of spending every weekend with me it seems like coke has taken my place. It makes me feel awful and worthless.
Any suggestions?
What should I do?
Should I talk to her and let her know how I feel?
One day I told her I couldn't take it anymore and that something needed to change. She told me she would cut back and not put herself in bad situations when she is doing it.
This is when she began to lie to me about her doing it. I would meet up with her at night and she would hide it from me all night, even though she knew that I knew.
I caught her doing this a few times, but when I would confront her about it she would automatically try to flip it on me and tell me I was controlling and if I didn't like it to leave.
I love this girl more than anything but I know I can't deal with that lifestyle anymore. She is 26 and still acting like a 21 year old.
I completely cut off all communication with her a week ago, and it is getting harder and harder every day not to contact her. I told her last Wednesday I can't talk to her anymore, but 2 times this weekend she texted me, once asking me to meet up with her and another letting me know she hung out with my friend on sat and did coke all night with him and her guy friends from work.
I don't want to contact her but I am worried about her. She was my best friend before we dated and I would be very upset if anything ever happened to her.
I love her, but I know I can't be with her when she is like this. But I miss our time we spent together. Instead of spending every weekend with me it seems like coke has taken my place. It makes me feel awful and worthless.
Any suggestions?
What should I do?
Should I talk to her and let her know how I feel?