Aoner1
Oct 20, 2008, 11:44 AM
Well, I'll start this off by introducing myself... I'm a 23 yr old guy, still living with my parents. I grew up in a loving household (for the most part, my dad's a jerk, that's another story), which would probably explain why I have an unbreakable affinity for long term love realtionships. I have 2 questions-
Since I broke up with my girlfriend of 2.5 years... I've been living a very socially active lifestyle. I did the right thing and embraced the fact that I'll probably never be with her again... I've been partying, going to bars, meeting people, having great sex, etc. But I still am extremely unhappy.
It's been about... 5-6 months of this and it seems I can never find a girl I can trust. It's like my attitude of being "happy with life" is attracting girls who are just looking for sex, nothing more. Or, they are just... not trustworthy. Is this usually the case? Am I looking in all the wrong places? If so, where should I be looking? Should I be looking at all? Maybe I should just keep doing this, and she'll pop up one day?
Second question-
I've been dating this girl for a month or so. She's quite the flake, but she loves the sex. We were hanging out once a week, going out, eating dinner, going back to my place. But last night she completely blew me off. No phone call, no text... nothing. She's done this once before but I let it go because, hey, it happens. But what do I do this time?
Should I-
a) ignore her next time she texts me
b) get pissed off
c) forgive her when she calls, and set up another date
By the way, she's very good looking.
(and yes, these are the types of girls I keep hooking up with. Good looking, flakey women.)
Since I broke up with my girlfriend of 2.5 years... I've been living a very socially active lifestyle. I did the right thing and embraced the fact that I'll probably never be with her again... I've been partying, going to bars, meeting people, having great sex, etc. But I still am extremely unhappy.
It's been about... 5-6 months of this and it seems I can never find a girl I can trust. It's like my attitude of being "happy with life" is attracting girls who are just looking for sex, nothing more. Or, they are just... not trustworthy. Is this usually the case? Am I looking in all the wrong places? If so, where should I be looking? Should I be looking at all? Maybe I should just keep doing this, and she'll pop up one day?
Second question-
I've been dating this girl for a month or so. She's quite the flake, but she loves the sex. We were hanging out once a week, going out, eating dinner, going back to my place. But last night she completely blew me off. No phone call, no text... nothing. She's done this once before but I let it go because, hey, it happens. But what do I do this time?
Should I-
a) ignore her next time she texts me
b) get pissed off
c) forgive her when she calls, and set up another date
By the way, she's very good looking.
(and yes, these are the types of girls I keep hooking up with. Good looking, flakey women.)