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sleepless in Mi
Oct 17, 2008, 05:15 PM
I lost my love, and I don’t know what to do, been hearting for two years , we still talk she says that we will be back together but nothing happens

Fr_Chuck
Oct 17, 2008, 05:42 PM
Ok, it is over, you hve to start forgetting about her. No if you are not back together after two years you are not getting back together, stop as much contact as you can and start finding someone else.

mishelly3
Oct 17, 2008, 09:57 PM
Its been 2 yrs and she keeps dangleing this hope in front of you that you guys can get back together, its not going to happen if there was a chance you wouldve been back together it would have happen 2 yrs ago.You have to cut this loose. You will never move on from her if you don't tell her your done with her. You're a smart person start looking for someone who likes you and wants to spend time with you,that person is out there she's just beebn waiting for you to move on. So tomorrow is a new day start clean and fresh by just being you and start asking out those woman... Best of luck to you,

Wondergirl
Oct 17, 2008, 10:32 PM
Ok, it is over, you hve to start forgetting about her. No if you are not back together after two years you are not getting back togehter, stop as much contact as you can and start finding someone else.
I'll say what FrChuck did but stronger:
Don't just "start forgetting about her" -- FORGET ABOUT HER!

Don't "stop as much contact as you can" -- STOP ALL CONTACT!!

Join a gym or get into an exercise program. That's what most helped Sneezy who went through the same thing. Be sure to read his thread (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/am-doing-nc-what-about-her-161688.html). Read it once, twice, even ten times. He survived. You will too.