I have been with my boyfriend for a year and half he is a lot older than me.the problem is we haven't had sex for a month and he want let me touch him. I have asked him why he just says he is tied. But the other morning I woke up and the bed was wet from him.what has happened to my sex life dose he still love me and will our sex life come back?

That is what dating is for... if you aren't happy with a guy, move on!

Find someone who is better in bed since he isn't too interested in you anymore.

It is surprising how fast time passes, so don't waste your youth and looks on a guy who becomes a "project"... find someone more compatible with you!

Best wishes going forward. :)

He's having male issues . Unless he clarifies to you what the problem is, you should think about moving on.

By male issues he's probably thinking about moving or has already done so or is getting his jolly's off something else.

Thank you but I really don't think he is cheeting on me. I can't leave as I have nowhere to go. He dose look after me what shall I do

OK, how much "older" if you are 18 and you are calling a 30 year old "old" is he 40, 50, 60?

Is he on medication, a lot of stress, is he really really tired, working real hard.

Is he watching a lot of porn?

He is 41 this year and I am 20. He dose work really hard but dose that mean my sex life has to stop? He is not on any med and don't watch porn

He needs to get checked out. A man of 40 has a different libedo (sp?) than one of 20. Just keep that in mind.

At 41, he might be slowing down, and he might feel he can not keep up with you, sexually. Talk to him about this.