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jsosad14
Oct 5, 2008, 06:16 PM
Well, there is this girl I've known for a whole summer and now I think I might love her. She is all I think about, she is in my head and I dream about her all the time. What should I do? Am I in love?

jrsg
Oct 5, 2008, 06:23 PM
What should you do?
If you think you love her, then ask her out! I know it is easier said then done, but you've got to try.

Do you think she 'loves' you back?

The only put love in quotes, is because I assume you are young, as this is on the 'teens' forum. I personally think love takes months, if not years of close bonding to build love. I don't think it can be attained over a summer (no offence).

I think you have a "strong liking" for for her, and you should ask her out.

The way I see it, you have two choices,
Either ask her out, or don't.

Good luck,
Let us know what you decide to do, and keep us updated!

Alty
Oct 5, 2008, 07:24 PM
Sweetie, if you don't know whether you're in love, how should we?

If you are in love you'll know, no one will have to tell you, trust me on that.

Why not ask her out, see how it goes?

Good luck.

JBeaucaire
Oct 5, 2008, 07:30 PM
It doesn't matter if it's love or not. All that matters is what you're going to do FOR the possible relationship.

When a girl inspires you to do things with your life to impress her, to sacrifice less important things on her behalf, to lead a better life and get into positive-result activities, then she is a good influence and you should respect that.

If, on the other hand, all you're inspired to do because of her is obsess and think of yourself, then maybe you should reconsider it.

Which is it for you?

Alty
Oct 5, 2008, 07:31 PM
Darnit, JB, I had to spread the love.

Very true and very good points. Bravo. :)