johnzor
Oct 4, 2008, 11:34 AM
Ive started collage a little over a month ago. In one of my classes I've noticed this really beautiful girl. After the first week of school had passed I noticed this girl started sitting next to me in class. And I would see her sitting in a chair in front of one of my other classes. I always see her around and it seems like she dose things to get my attention like linger around me. So I started talking to her and we have been talking in class and after class. She can talk a lot but she never asks me questions at all. I ask her the ussual questions but she won't ask me anything. I want to ask her out to do a class project but I need some good pointers. :D Thanks
joonkim228
Oct 4, 2008, 11:50 AM
Why don't you start with, "do you want to go out and get a cup of coffee sometime?"
I think if you can hang out after class or in a non-class environment, she'll understand that you're into her... and if she says no or gives you some lame excuse, then you know that she's just a flirt and you're probably not going to get very far.
Test the waters and see if you have things in common with her before asking her to hang out... for instance, ask her what she does for fun when she's not worrying about schoolwork... if she likes art, then take her to an art museum or a showcase (which every university usually has)... if she's into certain types of music, find out some places you can go for her music... in other words, use your brain... it's not that hard.
Good luck.
ylaira
Oct 7, 2008, 05:54 PM
Its your job to make a first move. U won't know unless you do soemthing.