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Sadyethopeful
Oct 2, 2008, 03:46 PM
Me and my partner are totally in love, but I can't seem to satisfy him sexually the way he satisfies me. I just want want him to enjoy as much as I do. So I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions on techniques or things that could help me out?

MrEasy
Oct 2, 2008, 04:09 PM
Me and my partner are totally in love, but I can't seem to satisfy him sexually the way he satisfies me. I just want want him to enjoy as much as i do. So I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions on techniques or things that could help me out?

In what way do you feel you are not satisfying him? Can you be more specific?

Sadyethopeful
Oct 2, 2008, 04:12 PM
Well, he says that being with my sexually is great, but that I'm not "talented" per say. Enough to make him get loud and enjoy it like he does to me!

Fr_Chuck
Oct 2, 2008, 04:22 PM
Well some people are not "loud" but it comes from askinghim what he likes, have him tell you

MrEasy
Oct 2, 2008, 04:47 PM
I agree. Also, not all women are loud. In fact some are facially expressive but not verbally.
I also agree that he should tell you what he would like instead of blaming you for not being "talented". If you are as in love as you say, he should be loving and enjoy the experience of discovering and learning each other. Could it be he is not as "talented" as he would have you think?

Revival
Oct 2, 2008, 06:16 PM
Key thing is talk to the guy. Make sure you let him know you want to do more for him in the bedroom, tell him to teach you, or maybe play a more dominant role in the bedroom. There are other ways as well. You can suggest watching an adult movie with him, and get ideas from that, you can talk to your girlfriends see what kind of things get their men going crazy if you don't want to be up front with him, you can try watching movies by yourself for ideas, try new things.