View Full Version : Is this a sign of cheating?
babyface714
Sep 27, 2008, 04:54 PM
My boyfriend has a cellular phone and he has lots of girl numbers in it with friends and family numbers, he always keep his phone off at night and during the morning. He cuts it on when he is at work. Is this a sign of cheating?
xoxaprilwine
Sep 27, 2008, 06:03 PM
No, he could just have a lot of girl friends... some guys relate to girls more. If he turns off his phone when he is with you then that's because what he is saying is that when he is with you, he is with you and does not want to be bothered by anyone else (sweet). If he turns off the phone so you can't get in touch with him then I wouldn't be too confident in the relationship (when I dated they waited :) but again he could just want his space and not have an attached girlfriend 24/7, 7 days a week, 365 or 366 days a year. Maybe just wait and see... don't pass your judgments too fast.
From personal experience though, I had a boyfriend like that once (and only once) but he never turned off his phone (yeah, he would actually talk on the phone with these girls and tell them all about me but I know he was full of s&^%). He was a BIG FLIRT! I would say any guy has the potential... but so does any girl! Ultimately, I don't know him so you could only determine this all I can say is follow your gut instinct and intuition!
katrinayukiko
Sep 27, 2008, 06:12 PM
Hmmm.. I don't know sounds a bit suspicious to me.. how steady are you and you boyfriend... if I were cheating I would probably be doing the same thig as he is.. but on the other hand men think differently to waman maybe he just doesn't like being wok up by an annoying theme tune.. if you guys are strong enough... talk about it..
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babyface714
Sep 27, 2008, 06:18 PM
Thanks, some of these girls call him all times of the night and sometimes he hurry and delete his call list be for I get to it. And one time I got his phone mixed up with my phone because we had the same phones and I read a text that some girl texted him asking was he still coming over her house and this was aroun 12am when she texted him this and he came home 2 hours after this text.
babyface714
Sep 27, 2008, 06:20 PM
I am having his child and I am over due for delievery and he lives with me. We have be dating for 11months now and oct 1 will be a year.
xoxaprilwine
Sep 27, 2008, 07:16 PM
Oh boy... no babyface its not good. First of all you guys dated for what 2 months before you got pregnant? And 1 year is too early to determine anything with regards to where the relationship will go.
By the way congratulations on your pregnancy... I am pregnant too and there is nothing more life achieving then having a child. I haven't looked at your profile but you sound young. When you are young you can fall and pick yourself up... I am only 26 but I still have to do that and probably will many times in the future. All I can say is you need to focus on you and the baby, for your health and your happiness for now until the time of your delivery.
Secondly, as it goes for him, I suggest you wear or have worn protection during intercourse with him throughout the pregnancy. I don't want you or the baby to be infected if he is promiscuous. I know financially things are tough so you have to weigh it all out. Rent, food, diapers, wipes, formula (if need be $40 a week), solid food, bottles... I hope you have good family support because I would go there and let them know that you are planning on moving on (if you decide to). Get out while you are ahead, I know the situation is bleek but have faith things will turn out in the end... they always do. I am giving you the obvious that he is cheating. But, really before jumping into cold water, talk to him and get your answers. I know he won't tell you the truth so read him and his body language very careful. (Which way is he looking when he is talking right, left, up or down? What is he doing with his hands? How is his body positioned toward you or away? Tone of voice and stuff like that and let us know) They say that true emotion only shows in an initial moment for 1 millisecond.
Best wishes and god bless you and the baby.
babyface714
Sep 27, 2008, 07:50 PM
I willl start looking for these signs tonight, thanks.