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elizabeth101
Sep 25, 2008, 02:50 PM
Hi,
Im having problems see I like this guy in my school right,
But I already went out with him but I dumped hi because my friends didn't like him
And now my bestfrined is going out with this guy and I really like him. :(
How do I get him to notice or like me again:confused::confused:
Please help!

rockinmommy
Sep 25, 2008, 03:10 PM
Be a good friend and a polite young lady.

You had your shot at him and you blew it! You sit back and wait for things to run their course with your friend. THEN, if you're still interested in him you treat him nicely and see what happens.

Don't scheme to steal your best friend's guy! Guys come and go... if she's a real friend you could have her for life.

hjpan
Sep 25, 2008, 03:15 PM
You are shallow.

You dumped him because your friends didn't like him.

So what?

You had your chance and you blew it.

JBeaucaire
Sep 25, 2008, 04:48 PM
Hehe, I know these answers are harsh, but it does sound like you're making all your choices based on what other people think. First they didn't like him so you say that's why you broke up with him. Now one (or more) of your friends DOES like him enough to go out with him, so you want him back. Whiplash... anyone?

Shallow, and aimless. You need to take some deep breaths here and just be boyfriendless for awhile. Your focus is on other's opinions and not on being a good girlfriend.

ntbntb78
Sep 25, 2008, 05:01 PM
Slap her!! Take him back!!

jrsg
Sep 25, 2008, 05:15 PM
Most answers are true...

"You had your chance, and you blew it" -hj
That says it all right there.

You make all your choices based on opinions of others, and that's just not right.

Now, you just want him back because you are jealous.

What do you do about this?
Nothing. Too bad. Move on, and make better decisions, and rethink your moral cumpass.