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morena13
Sep 24, 2008, 06:31 AM
Okay so I wrote another question awhile ago about
Wondering wheather or not a guy likes me
And obviously he does because we have been getting
Closer and we/ve been going out not like dating but
Like chillen . And I know for sure he likes me
Like you know when you stare in someone's eyes
You can tell wheather or not thiers a connection
And for sure there is !
But anyway here's my question
Well like for the last week it's been getting awkward between us
And now I am wondering wheather or not I like him
Like I always see him staring at me like every time we stare into eachothers
Eyes its not just a quick look we're looking at each other for a while.
Like when I walk into the room I just see a huge smile on his face. And he satrts to blush
But then when I do talk to him it gets very awkward like we don't talk as much no more
And it seems like he's ignoring me now. Because he's so shy around me
And it's getting really annoying. So do you think that he's ignoring me or
Doesn't like me no more? Should I just leave it how it is or just back off like
There was nothing there?

JBeaucaire
Sep 24, 2008, 06:40 AM
Sounds to me like all you two really have is an attraction. It doesn't sound like you have much beyond that. I hope you're mature enough to realize the important thing isn't the attraction, it's all the other stuff you have to build a relationship on.

If that other stuff isn't there, don't beat this drum too long.

Also, your question has a lot of "oh my gosh what is HE thinking" stuff in it. That's pretty pointless to ask us, and it's beside the point. All that matters is how YOU are doing and what YOU are thinking when you're here talking to us. We can only help you with you, he's not here to tell us what's going on with him.

aprilemclean
Sep 24, 2008, 02:14 PM
HeLoo, Its Obv You Too Have a connection :) my best friend has a boyfriend who she has been with for a long time but they carnt talk face to face. They only really talk of txting or msn. And when were all out its really weird for them because they haven't got past the shame stage yet. I think you should tell him how you feel :) you never no he may same the same back to you just make sure you truthfull and honest to him and don't be shy and help him be more comfortable around you if he is shy :) Hope This Helps x

kminni01
Sep 24, 2008, 02:28 PM
I think he likes you, he's just really shy because he doesn't know what to do with himself when he's around you. The same kind of thing has happened to me when I was in high school. Just be open to him and try and get things back to what they were like before and maybe ask him to hang out and just try and get him to open up more. Idk, but I definitely think that he's majorly crushing on you ;) Good luck girl!

<3 kt