My girlfriend and I have been dating little over a year... and we care deeply for each other but she just experimeted with another girl over the weekend... but the thing is she went behind my back.. should I be mad over this she did prettymuch cheat on me.. no matter what sex.. what do I do.. I don't want to leave her but she did hurt me with out telling me 1st... and this girl got farthed then I did... :eek::confused::(

If you have any integrity as a man you will leave her. This kind of stuff is obscene yet it is valued in today's culture. If you don't care about love and relationships and just wanted some.. Keep her with you. If you are a real human being who has emotions and is sincere, let her go Now.

If you don't want to leave her, sit down with her and calmly discuss it. Is she likely to do it again? Whether she is, is this something you can live with? If you found out because she was being honest, there's something to that. But I'd just sit down with her and try to get an understanding of where she is and let her know how you feel.

I completely agree with Germain. For some sick reason this is valued and popular in this society right now. It is not uncommon for a female to do this. If you respect yourself and have morals leave this person now.

Cheating, is cheating, in my eyes, and when the trust is broken, you either fix it, and forgive, or leave, and start over.

This is something you give some thought to, and communicate between you, and the see if its all worth it to keep going.

If you forgive, there is no throwing it back at her in the future, but you both have to work together to repair the hurt of betrayal. Do you think your both up to that??

If not, leave!

All great answers... thanks everyone.. mp2dtw has my best answer.. thanks people..