There is this girl I met last year. At first she hated me and picked on me. I started to aim her and all of a sudden things began to change in an unbelivably beautiful way. She started to trust me with everything and gave me her number. She started to talk to me in school and tell me things that she wouldn't tell anyone else. After a while I got the impression she liked me, the way I adored her since I laid eyes on her. I told her I loved her and it sent everything crazy I got really nervous and tried to cover it up and she hated me because she didn't know where I was coming from. I couldn't tell her the truth which is why she hated me. After a couple of days I thought up a story that would end it and it did. She is my best friends yet again. Yay. But its not enough. I LOVE her. I NEED her. She is my world. I no however that she doesn't feel the same way.:( I need to get her to like me. Some how some way, so I can ask her out and not loose her friendship, which I worked so hard to get. I don't want a gay answer like: just be honest, ask her out. Treat this like it were you please.

First of all, using gay as a derogatory term is a horrible stereotype, so please don't do it again.

And yea, if you want an honest answer, you have two choices: 1) tell her how you feel and let her think about it and make a decision OR 2) be silent forever. It's like they say when you get married, If anybody has a reason why these two should not be wed, then let them speak now or forever be silent. You either tell her, or don't. There's not really a way around it.

You don't want a "gay" answer..

That is really not a great way to introduce yourself to these forums. To say something like that, in a place where I would say a good 20% of the people are homosexuals or bisexuals, isn't going to get you much help. You could offend a whole bunch of people saying something like that.

I think you should use the "edit" button, and take that out of your post immediately.



Now, to your question...
Sorry to answer specifically in a way you asked me not to, but be honest and tell her.
And whatever lie you told he to make her become your "bff," you need to correct that too.
Seriously, if you are looking for us to tell you how you can get her through some magical method, we can't.

You refer to her as your life, your love, your world, etc. You say you "NEED" her.
You should tell her your feelings, and ask her out.

Or, you can get over her and move on with your life. You know she doesn't love you back, so move on. She's not the one for you. As hard as it may be swallow, you need to move on.

And just a reminder,
I'm sure you're a great guy, but seriously remove the "gay" from your post. It makes you come across as an a**hole, and not many people here are going to like that kind of use of the word, including me.

If it were me, I wouldn't mess around trying to "figure out" some trick to get her to like me. I would be honest and ask her out... and I'm not gay, so go figure.

Honestly, one day she hates you and another not. You can not make somebody else like you or even go out with you. Either ask her out or do not, your choice really... In my own opinion I think your better off just staying friends...

:(hi I get where your coming from I like a guy and heis my friend I don't now if he like's me :rolleyes:or what but the first time I put my eyes on him I fell in love wath him... well your story you now what you must do go up to her and tell her to site down wath u and tell her in your friendly way if she want to have so food wath u and if she said no then just tell her that it just to friends going out :confused: OK so reply and tell me how thing's go OK injoy :)

Well, I hate to say this but... you my friend are in the "Friend Zone"... if you ask her out it's going to ruin your friendship... She's just not into you.

If you really like her then try and be friends for real...

Look for someone new that DOES like you back.

Right now at your age she's not into you. Maybe it will change as you both get older.

Why not put your energy on getting a six pack, to bring up yourself esteem... (I know my daughter is always so "omgomgomg, he's so bufffff!!! and she's a teen...). So, get your body in shape, dude. It's gonna make you feel like you're "da mannn!"

All kinds of girls are gonna take notice of your hot self and maybe when she sees that she'll get all "I want him!", and you win!

... Just some suggestions... Good luck.

I wouldn't advise asking her out, I think it would create an embarrassing and awkward situation.I'm sorry to tell you it doesn't look like she likes you in the way you like her- and if you try and show your hidden feelings towards her, it will probably scare her off.

How old are u and the girl? Are u both girls? Just wondering.

My husband was in the 'Friend Zone' for almost a year before we started dating. And I knew how he felt about me. I just didn't want to settle down at the time. But then again... I wasn't in high school.

You say you don't want a "gay" answer like be honist and tell her but I'm sorry to say that is what you should do!

Tell her, if she doesn't feel the same then fine at least you definitely know where you stand. If she reacts childish and falls out with you then she doesn't seem that mature a person anyway!

:)