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mewant2play
Sep 19, 2008, 06:13 AM
My girlfriend dumped me an two months later she meets a guy from the internet for about two months and then sees each other for the first time two weeks ago and sleeps with him the first night they meet and now she is inviting him to move in with her, what could if she moves this fast with some stranger she met over the net from another state?

mewant2play
Sep 19, 2008, 06:15 AM
My girlfriend dumped me an two months later she meets a guy from the internet for about two months and then sees eachother for the first time two weeks ago and sleeps with him the first night they meet and now she is inviting him to move in with her, what could if she moves this fast with some stranger she met over the net from another state?
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pluckyflamingo
Sep 19, 2008, 06:31 AM
It seems a little fast for me, but unless you know all the details I wouldn't really jump to conclusions. Either way it is only your ex, if I were you I would find someone more on your level.

450donn
Sep 19, 2008, 07:54 AM
It seems really fast to me. But since you are no longer involved with her why do you care? It is obvious that you are not going to get back together with her, so forget about her and move on with your life.

JBeaucaire
Sep 19, 2008, 09:14 AM
I think it's awesome... for you. Now you know how TRULY flakey she is and can move on without looking back anymore.

liz28
Sep 19, 2008, 04:52 PM
I don't think you should worry about what she is doing because it's her life and she has to live with her own decisions she makes. Focus on your life.

jrsg
Sep 19, 2008, 05:58 PM
Why do you care if she is with this guy?

I mean, I see the safety issue here,
But live your own life. MOVE ON!

He is a stranger to you. If she is trusting him enough to move in with him, she must have a lot of trust in him. He is anything but a stranger to her. The chances that this guy is a crazy serial killer is very small.

And it seems to me like you are concerned more about how they are acting in their relationship, more so than the safety side of it.

I would really recommend NC for you, because you seem to be too involved and worried about her. You need to move on. You need to live your life, and you need to let her live hers.

SAFETY ASPECT ASIDE...
Why do you care?
What difference does it make to you if they are moving too fast?
Why do you care if they sleep together on their first date?

Bottom line, WHY DO YOU CARE??

Have you moved on with your life yet?
I doubt it, and I think you should.