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Dreamer2
Sep 14, 2008, 07:33 PM
Hi,

I met this guy through my friend she works for him. He saw my picture on her site and begged her to meet me. There is a ten year difference between us I am older. I reluctantly met him because I have been burned in the past and he wasn't my type. I wound up liking him and wanting to get to know him better and he did as well. He invited my friend and I to a family block party, we went and there was a moment we were alone and he kissed me, I was receptive to it. That was all that had happened he proceeded to tell me he wanted us to speak directly none of the go between anymore so I said OK. He has been texting me telling me how he was thinking of me and just general conversation. He asked me to hangout at his place one night to watch movies and I said OK. The day comes when I am supposed to go over and I hear nothing. My friend asked me how it went and I told her I never heard from him. He told her we rescheduled and that he didn't want to hangout with me alone because he was way too attracted to me and he would definitely try something and he wanted to hang in a group setting cause he wanted to get to know me. I still have not heard from him and I do not understand what happened to him being soooooo into me to pretending I'm dead? My friend also will not address anything to him about him lying about the rescheduling and wanting to get together in a group. He told me before this happened he used to be a real jerk to girls and he was trying to not be "that guy" anymore so I don't know if that might be the case. Please help cause I did dig him and I feel like stabbing him right now!!

JBeaucaire
Sep 14, 2008, 07:55 PM
Crazy signals? An aggressive kissing interaction just moments after you met, followed by falsehoods? What's the crazy signal?

I just see an undesirable man in your life periphery. You're not going to let him in any further after this clear red flag first volley?

You're not, are you?

Dreamer2
Sep 15, 2008, 03:05 AM
Yes, I understand but I think that the behavior was alcohol induced not that that is an excuse but I had originally met him a week previous to this encounter. And I do not think I will be seeing him again. I was just curious to what the behavior was about.

Thanks for the reply!!

JBeaucaire
Sep 15, 2008, 04:46 AM
Alcohol does not induce behavior. Character induces behavior. Alcohol is jokingly referred to as "liquid courage"... alcohol reduces inhibitions, but the behavior that follows is actually MORE of you, not less.

Alcohol induced... funny stuff.