OK so I'm really peed off right now because I asked this question then found out I wasn't logged in so it didn't work :mad: so ill cut a long story short OK!?

Year 6 2005
I liked this boy so I asked him out, it went really well, we would phone each other all the time, it was great, till he cheated on me with my truly best friend forever (seriously we've been best friends since reception!) so that was that, we went to different secondary schools so the only time we see each other is if we pass in the park or something.

Year 10 2008
I'm going out with this boy now, we have since like the end of year 8 or something? Anways recently I started to dream about the boy that I went out with in year 6 you know the type of dream where your going out with them, but you know you can't in real life, well your NOT in real life umm I guess it's a fantasy?? And the boy I AM going out with is flirting with other girls constantly I get really peed off by it PLUS he doesn't treat me with respect, so I'm thinking about finishing him altogether I feel nothing when I'm around him, but I know it would probably work out with the other boy, I just need to get in contact with him and I have a way anyway, am I doing the right thing?? Help me I'm really confuzzled :D I had to say that word... well type it... you know! So am I or not??

Separate issues.

First, your boyfriend "doesn't do it for you" now, right? Why is it so hard to just admit that, end it with him so you can both move on to something else? Just do it. It's not a failure. Failure is staying attached to a boy you know you're going to break up with anyway. Waste of time... end it.

Now, the old flame? Well, once you're free of the deadweight current boyfriend, you're free, right? Call him if you want. Don't call him. Doesn't matter. You're free, so enjoy it.