yahoossnake
Sep 8, 2008, 08:28 PM
OK here is my story
I'm from Mn my 8 year old boy who has lived with me for 5 years now. We never went to court for this at all just he started living with me cause she couldn't handle it any more. When he was born she didn't know if the boy was mine so she gave him her last name. Once he was a about 8 months old we found out he was mine( blood test) I signed right to partent hood. Well him having her last name didn't bother me up to the last few years seeing her last name on his sports uniforms when she don't pay for anything in his life I don't get any child support and don't want any from her. I asked her if I could change his last name and she tells me no I don't want to get in a fight with her about it cause I don't want her to totally abandon him or take him away from me cause I don't have legal custidy.
So I quess what I'm asking is can I get his name changed to my last name legaly no questions asked. If the mother don't want it changed or not.
And 2nd question is
After living with me for 5 years and being in the school system in this town for 4 years now make him legaly mine? For child abondment
I'm from Mn my 8 year old boy who has lived with me for 5 years now. We never went to court for this at all just he started living with me cause she couldn't handle it any more. When he was born she didn't know if the boy was mine so she gave him her last name. Once he was a about 8 months old we found out he was mine( blood test) I signed right to partent hood. Well him having her last name didn't bother me up to the last few years seeing her last name on his sports uniforms when she don't pay for anything in his life I don't get any child support and don't want any from her. I asked her if I could change his last name and she tells me no I don't want to get in a fight with her about it cause I don't want her to totally abandon him or take him away from me cause I don't have legal custidy.
So I quess what I'm asking is can I get his name changed to my last name legaly no questions asked. If the mother don't want it changed or not.
And 2nd question is
After living with me for 5 years and being in the school system in this town for 4 years now make him legaly mine? For child abondment