For a long time I have felt that I been losing my daugther love and respect. She turning twelve on Thursday. I try calling her she doesn't pick her phone. Her mother and I are not together. Her mother never tells me anything about her. All she talks to me about is money. When I call the home phone she always to busy to talk to me. Her mother claims she doesn't bring me up and when her mother does she say I don't want to call him. I never see her anymore. And I feel let she hate me. I don't know what to do. I love her so much and I tell her that all the time. I spend her email, text and when I call her phone I leave her messages. She tell me. I never got the messages. Why is she lying to me.

I hate to say it but tha mom might have said bad things that made your daughter hate you. My step fathers wife did that you should try to have her stay over next summer. We did that and my step sister actually moved in! May I also suggest going to court just to get visitation rights.