There was a guy a liked so I would phone him a lot! On his birthday I phoned him and told him happy birthday! Anyway when my b-day was coming up I had a message on my msn saying when my birthday was so I thought he would call! He didn't! So then I phoned him three days after me b-day and I asked for him! So he got the phone said hi then I said hi and well he pertended he couldn't hear me! So I call again and I asked for him and in the backround he screamed no! But the thing is that he was really nice to me like he luved me! But he didn't tell me!! I need help to get him back! Because he dodnt even want to talk to me now!! but if he acted like he liked me what would that mean?? :confused:

How do you know that he loved you if he didn't tell you? You can't make someone be with you. He's ignorning you, that's a sign to move on, and find someone that wants to be with you.

He changed his mind, give your attention to someone who deserves it.
Aka Forget about him!

But lets say I liked this other guy that he knew about would that be the reason??

If he inst interested you can't make him be interested. You tested the waters and he didn't respond. Look for someone who will, there are others out there.

You are misreading his signals and should leave him alone. He doesn't want your attention.

There was a guy a liked so i would phone him alot! On his birthday i phoned him and told him happy birthday! anyways when my b-day was coming up i had a message on my msn saying when my birthday was so i thought he would call! he didn't!! so then i phoned him three days after me b-day and i asked for him!! so he got the phone said hi then i said hi and well he pertended he couldnt hear me! so i call again and i asked for him and in the backround he screamed no! but the thing is that he was really nice to me like he luved me! but he didnt tell me!!! i need help to get him back! because he dodnt even want to talk to me now!!!!!!!!!!!but if he acted like he liked me what would that mean?????:confused:
Forget him hunni

Sounds like a jerk, and you are much better off without men like that, plenty more fish in the sea!

Being nice to you doesn't mean he's anything but being nice. It doesn't mean he loves you or is even interested in going out with you. You say you called him a lot, that's your first clue. He may have talked to you that much because he was being polite or bored when you called or ready for a break from what he was doing. But if he was interested, he would have been calling you, asking you out & would have called on your BD.

Heed the advice of others to leave this one alone & don't confuse love for friendly interest or politeness, that will only cause your feelings to keep getting hurt when they don't have the same agenda you do. Being too persistent with constant calls when the attraction isn't mutual isn't going to make them want to be with you but the opposite in fact.

It's OK to give people the chance to get to know you better but when they only respond when you chase them, there is a reason for that. They just aren't interested and/or ready to be a good partner to you & trying to force that to happen will only end up being a disaster.

OK you guys just don't get it he got my a valentines gift I got him one and he tried to KISS ME! He tried to kiss me I didn't trie to kiss him he tried to kiss me!!

Meah all I can say is I remember those younger HS days, Don't fall for sex, don't just don't do it. Don't feel pressured to. GL and let you have much happiness.

Again no sex because you think he loves you. *Not saying that's his intentions atm but keep what I said in mind.

Honestly, theremogirlyoulove, I don't think YOU get it. All his signals are silent ways of telling you that he doesn't like you. Actions speak louder than words. Listen to his actions.

Back away, and see if he is interested or not, if he is, he will chase you.

I'm not in high school!

"I am so confused. The light bulb worked...and now it won't! I know it works because it worked for me before. What do I do? The light should be doing what I expect because it used to and...and...."

Sorry, honey, there's nothing confusing here. His light bulb has burnt out. He had a light for your briefly, and it burned out. Simple. True. That's it.

Change your light bulb. Time to stop shining your light at him, he's totally moved on already.

He changed his mind once, twice, three times! Who knows it doesn't matter. Just because he needed a date on a holiday doesn't mean he isn't a jerk - in fact that makes him a jerk. Did you forget about that time he hung up on you and shouted "no"?

Find some guy that isn't so fickle and shallow.

Chihuahuamomma he TRIED TO KISS ME Don't YOU GET IT!!

chihuahuamomma he TRIED TO KISS ME DONT YOU GET IT!!!!!!!!
Yes, she gets it. We all do.

When someone tries to kiss you, that tells you one thing only - they want to kiss you. And they want to kiss you then, at that moment.

An attempted kiss isn't a vow of love, it is an attempted kiss.

And even if he DID have strong feelings THAT DAY, you have to realize he no longer does. Things change. They DO. It's perfectly normal. He's done nothing wrong by liking a little then and no longer. It's perfectly normal.

I don't mean to offend you, but prostitutes have SEX every day with people that don't like them & vice-versa but want sex at that moment with someone that will do. The fact that he tried to kiss you alone is not proof of his feelings for you.

And even if he did at that point in time "like" you, the important thing is what his actions say his feelings are NOW. If he's not calling you & making it clear he doesn't want to talk when you contact him, that's a message you should pay attention to because he's telling you whether he's into you or not. And the answer seems to be not.

There was a guy a liked so i would phone him alot! On his birthday i phoned him and told him happy birthday! anyways when my b-day was coming up i had a message on my msn saying when my birthday was so i thought he would call! he didn't!! so then i phoned him three days after me b-day and i asked for him!! so he got the phone said hi then i said hi and well he pertended he couldnt hear me! so i call again and i asked for him and in the backround he screamed no! but the thing is that he was really nice to me like he luved me! but he didnt tell me!!! i need help to get him back! because he dodnt even want to talk to me now!!!!!!!!!!!but if he acted like he liked me what would that mean?????:confused:
Move on. Quit making yourself look so desperate.

Oh no he told me he liked me I don't know what to do though?

Move on, get over it. He obviously does not like you.

Move on, get over it. He obviously does not like you.

Your 22 and you don't get it!:D

I honestly don't think you are the one that doesn't get it. If someone isn't talking to you, that's a great sign that he doesn't like you. MOVE ON!

If you really mattered to him, you'd know & not have to ask strangers if he did. The real issue is not whether he cares or not (he doesn't), but why you would let yourself be treated this way by someone that's a potential partner. This is when you are most likely to see his "best" behavior towards you & so far, it sucks.

Not telling you himself he couldn't talk is rude. It only takes a minute to say he couldn't talk right then & let you know when he could call you back. Not calling to see how you are doing is indicative that it doesn't matter to him. Not making plans to see you or spend time with you means he feels he has better things to do. He may like you as an acquaintance, but that's not even friendly behavior much less partnership actions.

So why would you want to be treated so disrespectfully, with so little concern for your wellbeing? That's the real issue not what he feels or doesn't feel for you, his actions really tell you all you need to know to see this guy at least at this point in time is a really bad bet for you to be involved with. If you train him to treat you badly & that's OK with you, the only thing that's bound to happen is you will get treated worse as time goes by, certainly not better.

I'm sorry you are hurting over this but this pain is nothing compared to being with someone that treats you badly repeatedly & gets away with it. Treat yourself better & find someone that will treasure you the way you obviously will them.

Don't fall into the obsession trap with someone not worthy of you spending a minute of your precious life worrying about, please, for your own good.

I honestly don't think you are the one that doesn't get it. If someone isn't talking to you, that's a great sign that he doesn't like you. MOVE ON!
OK I'm telling you this for the last time he told me he liked me and I acted freaky around him was that the problem!? That's all I'm asking!! That's my big question!:o

He lied. Move on.