Okay were do I start. I have been with my panter for 7 years and we have a lovely little girl who is four. The past 2 years have been hell for me. He is treating me like . He puts me down all the time and now I have found that he rings sex lines and I think he might have been with one of these girls. We have a house that we bought together and he won't put it on the market. Any ideas on how I can get out of this hole I am in:(

Leaving, and forcing him to buy you out, or sell the house, and split the proceeds. Consult a lawyer, many have free consultation.