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Mrcuddlesworth
Sep 2, 2008, 01:49 AM
OK this is my story I am 13 and 6'2 and 230 pounds and have dating problems, such as girls my age are almost utterly ruppisled by my looks bu fall in love with my personaliety.



So me and a close friend were getting closer and I deciede to ask her out she laughed in my face and the next day told everyone about it and I was the laughing stalk of the school.

And I wqas at my buds p[lace and he has a olde sister 17, and her 17 year old friends. And we talk abd its ovbivous there flirting with me and I find out from my buds sister they think I'm hot but when I tell people they laugh in my face and say you wish or somehting like that. And I just broke up with my girlfriend and I a very sad but can't do anything about it and thinking of asking one of those older girls out but I am scared to death of rejection as of I have had it a lot. And I am also worried they might start me into somehting (sex,drugs,acholchol) what should I do??

Any adivce

Any would be very appreactive:confused: :confused: :confused:

ChihuahuaMomma
Sep 2, 2008, 02:09 AM
A 13 year old boy and a 17 year old girl are in very different stages of life. Not a good idea. Focus on your friends for the time being. Trust me, not too far from now, you will be the hottie of the school. My first boyfriend was just like you. Tall, he had facial hair at 15. The first time I saw him I thought he was a teacher ((Not kidding)). I fell in "love" with him at 15. We dated for a few years. Now I LOVE tall guys. You will grow into who you are in time, give it time. Enjoy your youth, there will be plenty of time for dating in the future.

Mrcuddlesworth
Sep 2, 2008, 02:18 AM
The thing is I have ony had 1 girlfriend but I'm so afriad of rejection
And me being a hottie seems impossible.
And I already have a mustchae

ChihuahuaMomma
Sep 2, 2008, 02:22 AM
My point exactly. You are an early bloomer, which may seem like an issue and hindrance at 13, but will be a blessing at 15. Trust me. Things will start to look up soon. In the mean time, focus on what's truly important-- school, friends, and family.

Mrcuddlesworth
Sep 2, 2008, 02:24 AM
School starts in two days not even remotly close to family thanks to parents and friends are pissed off at me

ChihuahuaMomma
Sep 2, 2008, 02:33 AM
YAY for school starting!

I'm not close to most of my family either, just my sister. She's my best friend.

Why are friends mad at you?

Mrcuddlesworth
Sep 2, 2008, 02:35 AM
There mad because I got a new friend just moved to where I live and he wanted me to show him stuff around town and I kind of ditched my other friends for him and I got into a fight with a friend because he was fighting my other friend soi everyone hates me right before school starts how perfect huh?

ChihuahuaMomma
Sep 2, 2008, 02:38 AM
Ask your parents if you can invite them all over and have a clumber party or video game party and call a truce. And introduce them to your new friend.

Mrcuddlesworth
Sep 2, 2008, 02:42 AM
My parents hate family and they say there too busy which there not because all I see them doing is watching t.v. orsleeping
And they know chris

ChihuahuaMomma
Sep 2, 2008, 02:46 AM
No, I meant introduce your friends to the new friend. Have everyone over and play video games or just hang out and apologize so all is good before school starts, and things can be back to normal.

Mrcuddlesworth
Sep 2, 2008, 02:47 AM
I'll try

Mrcuddlesworth
Sep 2, 2008, 02:49 AM
I need some advice
My ex Emma(LOVE OF MY LIFE) recently ended are reltionship and I am feeling incerbilby sad about it and want to get back together but it turns out she is bisexual and is already has a girlfriend I want to get back together with her and ii love jher so much what should I do??

moneybagz
Sep 2, 2008, 04:51 AM
I tried it and it works.