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shaun2282
Aug 31, 2008, 07:17 AM
Hi I need some help or advice I have had feels for a friend of mine since I met her but at the time she had a boyfriend and was in that relationship for 5 yrs I think and got two young children witch are lovely . She has just spilt up and I have been there for her and she knows I like her and I have been in the sittaion she is in be4 and she dose like me as she told me the other day but this spilt up is a narsty 1 for her as he is being a complet wanker towards her and I don't know what to do and I can't just say sorry I can't be there for you any more because that will just send her down hill because I have picked her up so many times because she has just been nocked down by the ex and the he is given her so much . Please help me I'm going ut my mind...

JBeaucaire
Aug 31, 2008, 08:34 AM
Just don't turn into desperate, weird guy. She's got kids and a history to deal with. So calm down, stay calm, and just be there for her. Still.

You can let her know of your interest in her, but don't futz up your friendship over it, OK?

shaun2282
Aug 31, 2008, 08:39 AM
Well she knows how I feel and she has told me she like's me too that's why I'm finding it hard but its really nice when we spend tme togther with the hugs and some times kisses too thank's for the advice

ka1111
Sep 1, 2008, 01:26 AM
Congratulations,you're a cuddle .You are in for a world of pain.