I split with my partner 2weeks ago and he went straight into another realationship with her kids,I'm finding it very hard but trying 2 move on.the other day he said he wants our kids 2 meet her but straight away I said no because its 2 soon for me and the kids because we are only just getting use 2 not having him around.he poped over and had her waiting in the car and I reacted 2 it and got angry that he would do this after he knows its hurting me and that I've said I don't want her anywhere near our home or kids.do you think I'm right for what I'm saying?or am I being silly and just need to be OK with it?please help

You are definitely right! This guy sounds like an absolute prick. Yes, eventually she should be entitled to meet them but for now it is just to soon. Your babies will mostly hate her anyway if she is going to try and replace you. I hope this has helped. Xx

You are in the right mostly, it really is too soon for him to introduce a new woman into your children's lives. How old are the children?

On the relationship note, just because someone starts to date soon after a break-up doesn't mean that he moved on as soon as you broke up. I'm sure he moved on (emotionally) far before that. I know this isn't really reassuring. My point is, emotionally [to him] he may not have moved on after two weeks, it may have been much longer.

Anyway, he needs to respect your wishes as far as having her at your home. And introducing her to the children.

What is the custody situation?

They are nearly 2 and 5 years old,they have been affected by this big time and I think he is bang out of order 4 what he is doing when its clear he is doing it 2 get back at me!its sick when he bringing the kids into it and I have a solicitors appointment in couple weeks 2 see were I stand in stopping any contact if needed be.