My head is Severely wrecked, I can't even tink straight, I've been crying 4 days, I am MADLY in love wit my boyfriend, I have never felt this way about anyone and I'm 27, he's perfect for me, BUT I just found out that he's mom is my dads brothers wife's 1st cousin? WHAT DOES THAT MEAN 4 US? ARE WE DOING SOMETHING WRONG BY BEING together? Thanks guys xxx HONEST ANSWERS PLEASE XXX

His mom... ok. And your uncle's wife? Then that means there is absolutely no blood between you two. Does your uncle have any children? If so then that would mean they would be your cousin. And if so, they would also be his cousin. So at the most, you two would share a cousin. But in your case, it is not a blood cousin. Therefore, there is nothing to worry about.

You are not blood related, so it's OK in my opinion.

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If you're 27, you need to learn to type full sentences, please. Even with your age IN your post, it's hard to believe you're not 13 from your typing.

And to answer your question, you're not blood related. Where I grew up, you're what's referred to as "shirt-tail cousins"--meaning that you share a set of cousins, but you're not related to each other.

Well, your boyfriend's mom is the COUSIN of your uncle's wife.

There's no blood relation there.

And come on, you're 27, proper grammar is good to know.