Hi I love my boyfriend so much we have been together for 6 years and have 2 wonderful kids together, just over a year ago when I was heavliy pregnant he cheated on me I find myself fat and ugly and can't have much intercourse as it hurts is there any other way I can show him how much I love him.

Hi, loopylou!

You've already had two wonderful kids together. What do you think are the things that have held the two of you together? How and when did he cheat on you, please? I'm just looking for ways for you to help yourself here.

Thanks!

As a man whose never had kids, I always thought it was my responsibility to man up at times for the woman, and I have to tell you I'm pretty sure one of those times is when she's "heavily pregant."

Now I'm a little confused are you overweight now or are you referring to when this happened. You say you find yourself fat and ugly well how about finding yourself hot and gorgous. Looks are a matter of perspective, and society lies, so you might as well tell yourself the truth. If you are overweight your better looking then any 75 pound model I've ever seen.

I am amazed that you can pass over his cheating, and want to please him, like its your fault he did what he did. What's up with that??