OK so I'm stuck in a major dilema.

I met these two girls at school... each in different classes so they don't know that the other one exists. So I kind of like one more than the other but I still like the other one. But the thing is that I had to choose one because one was talking to me more than the other... so I said, "ok, this one's more interested... so ill picked her" but the one I picked was the one I liked a little less.

But later this week, I found out the one I like more is now interested in me after all. But the one that I like less has had so many relationship problems and so many heart breaks. I don't know what to do because I want to be with the one I really like... but I can't break this other girl's heart. I know I messed up, but I need to get outa this dilema.

What should I do?

... you either break the girl's heart now.. and move on, or you break it later.

Your indecisions are what makes this a dilemma, and the only way out is to hurt someone's feelings. What do you care, you get what you want at someone else's expense. All you had to do was take time, to make the choice you wanted in the first place.

I suggest making better, more thought out decisions next time playa!

Do what would make you happiest. Make sure to break up with the girl gently. Ease her in. Like what was previously mentioned, you're going to break up with her sooner or later, just don't prolong it because it might hurt her more.

The mature thing would be to break up with both of them & work on yourself so you can be a better partner when you do get into a relationship again while avoiding these sorts of unnecessary entanglements.

Instead, I suspect you will stick to your selfish M.O. which will end up again complicating your romantic life again soon enough anyway. We all end up make mistakes along the way.

As long as you think you are getting second best you will not be treating the first girl fairly or with your full attention. She deserves better than that. You do too, you do deserve to have the best partner, we all do. It doesn't sound like at this point you really do know which one of the girls that is, you just like one a little better. It's possible the one you have now is the perfect one for you & the one you want will break your heart. You would have been better off being honest to both & making it clear to both that it wasn't exclusive so you wouldn't be making a premature decision at all.

The unselfish part of you recognizes the first girl has already had a lot of heartache you don't want to contribute to. Being honest would help with that. She may not like what you say but at least you won't be lying to her & leading her on. And it doesn't sound like you've been involved that long? So just be honest & make it clear you two aren't exclusive yet so you can keep your options open. If you have implied or promised she's the only one, then tell her that was premature & you wanted to be upfront about the fact that you are going to be seeing other people as she is free to as well.