:mad: I need help I met a guy he asked me out 2 days after meeting him I said no I needed to find outmore about him we kept talking for a month more I was about to say yes to beibg his girlfriend when all of a sudden we stop talking when we finally start talking he has a girlfriend but the bad thing is I think he had this girkfriend for a long time even when he asked me out I need help I can't stop thinking a about him I think I'm in love which I hate he's the wrong

You're in love with someone that you've known for a month? It's probably just an infatuation, which is still difficult to get over. Do the no contact thing.

He tried to cheat his Gf by you so he's playing with you. Do NC. He's not worthy of time.

Well, if anything, you've learned how useless the "love" reflex is. See how easy it is love someone regardless of whether they deserve it or not? Keep that in mind.

I would vote against dating people who have girlfriends already. I'm old-fashioned that way.

He was playing you and if you can fall in love that easily with the wrong guy then look for the right guy and really fall in real love. You will get over the 'love' feeling. Most of it is just an emotional thing of the idea of being in love and not love itself. Think about it what all could you really possibly know about this guy that really qualifies as quality love? It is more an impression + YOUR idea what he was like. Look at all the relationships gone bad in months or even years that started with "I love him so much! I can't live without him!" and it turns out they can't stand him later down the road. So be realistic!