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MANDMO 91
Aug 12, 2008, 11:57 AM
There is this one guy I have the biggest crush on and he lieks me too I heard from his friends and family but like I knew him since jk and growing up ! He is in a grade ahead of me! But its one of those things where you like never talk to each other or see each other everyday! I don't have Facebook to talk to him on or anything! He went to a different high school so we kind of lost contact! But how do I get in contact with this guy without being stockerish! Lol its one of those things where you both look forward to seeing each other when you can but both are too shy to do anything! Ahah help moi!

crazybird
Aug 13, 2008, 04:59 AM
If he is shyer than you you'll have to make the first move. If you know where he lives look up his phone number and give him a call. It may help to start by telling him you are a bit shy but that you like him and would like to get to know him better. Ask him if he feels the same way and if so would he like to meet you at the local burger joint or come over to your house or something along those lines. If you don't know where he lives the next time you see him go up to him and say hi and take it from there. If he likes you too he will be very happy that you broke the ice. If you really can't bring yourself to approach him then write a note in advance telling him you like him and give him your phone number. The next time you see him have someone give him the note. Don't be afraid to make this move. We all have all types of fear in doing things in life but you have to push yourself sometimes. I was extremely shy when I was young. I am still shy in some situations but I force myself to do things. It really gives you a sense of accomplishment every time. Don't let fear keep you from the things you want in life! I hope this helps and good luck.