Ok, this has been eating away at me for some time now. My ex and I had a great relationship, but as always, when things start to get rough, we started to go down. She once before started talking to another guy because I broke up with her, unsure about the relationship. Soon I started to notice I was still in love with her after dating another also. We finally got back together and for another year we were doing fine.

Now in march she broke up with me after a fight we had, not a big deal right? Wrong... She was talking to another man and as much as she wouldn't admit she liked him, I knew it. She knew I knew it.

So of course we went back and forth, she was confused, I was heartbroken and confused. One day, she told me to leave her completely alone. I was about to go crazy. I fought so hard to make it all work out for over 2 years.

Now, I moved in with 2 of my best friends for a while until I could get my mind straight. I helped a lot with NC and a few weeks later I started getting calls and texts from her, I ignred them all, but one day I cracked because I missed her and couldn't take it. I went to see her. Turns out she wasn't happy with the new guy, and I was reeled back once again because I was still in love. She never called me after that for a while, and didn't respond to my texts. Well I guess she just wanted the attention and she got it.

I just did a 360 with the NC. I tried to get her back and eventually became heart broken again. She told me to leave her alone. So I did, and once again I get more calls. I actually tell her to leave me alone. Then she tells me she actually broke up with him and she regrets everything she did. And now I'm here sitting, after she admitts everything, I'm still in love with her and it's eating away at me!

What do I do?

Change your name to YO-YO, and keep telling yourself how your still in so much love, she can use you anytime she wants.

Or you can save your dignity, and self respect more misery by, disappearing from her life, and don't answer her calls, or text.

Sometime we can't help how we feel about someone, but we can help what we do about it.

Sometime we can't help how we feel about someone, but we can help what we do about it

That line sums it all up

I wouldn't waste my time playing games. I would move on and find someone that knows what she wants.

I'm in a similar boat, so I feel for you.

Unfortunately, it sounds like you two just haven't been on the same page at the same time for awhile. Perhaps her feelings for you now are just a rebound reaction to go back to the familiar, that being you. So, I think you both should be independent for awhile and work on yourselves, and then see if you still find yourself wanting the same things. Perhaps like in "An Affair to Remember". Sorry, I'm the unrealistic romantic type. Ha, ha. Good luck.

Get back on the NC bandwagon