Im 16 and I was just wondering If guys like shy girls. Im kind of shy and think guys won't like me cause I'm shy. But you tell me.

Some guys like shy girls. Some guys like outgoing girls. It depends on the guy.

I think guys like girls who are outgoing most of the time but on occasion if you naturally become shy in a certain situation they might think it's cute if you are able to pull through the shy mood and become comfortable.

I am a guy and I adore a shy girl I personaly find awesome when you meet a cute shy girl I just cna't help myslef and I hope this helps you out.

Trust me Mr.right is out there.

I found myself a Ms.right
Adns eh sounds a lot like you shy and was afraid no one would ever like her

Don't worry give it some time.

But if your really worried about it make some new friends.

I know a bunch of guys who would rather a shy girl than an outgoing girl, its much more mysterious and cute to them and really makes them want to dig deeper to get to know you.

Keep doing what your doing, because eventually the right guy will come along for you.

At 16 and being male I am pretty sure I have a better mentality to answer this question.

To be honest, I hardly can grasp even a bit of the information people are giving you. I think its more of 'supportive advice' then reality.

I don't like shy girls.. why? Because a) they are to afraid to break out of their shell b) they are no fun c) its hard to bring them to social situations like parties/clubs.

I will say that shy guys may like shy girls.

As for anything above that I would say no.

But heck every guys different.. so who knows?

I have dated a lot of girls some being shy most being outgoing. Im a pretty fun guy and I have found that girls who are timid ( afraid of having fun because they might embarrass themselves) is a huge turn off. Girls who can just let go and have fun and not think about what other people think are total babes.

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Thanks guys, your answers helped =)

I would just like to add that I know what I'm talking about when it comes to the way the teenage male brain works. I believe I have one..

JudyKayTee is just being unreasonable and stupid.

I would just like to add that I know what im talking about when it comes to the way the teenage male brain works. I believe I have one...?

JudyKayTee is just being unreasonable and stupid.


I don't believe you do - I also believe, coupled with your PM to me, that you should be suspended. And soon.

Did you send hate mail to everyone who gave you a "reddie?"

I don't believe you do - I also believe, coupled with your PM to me, that you should be suspended. And soon.

Did you send hate mail to everyone who gave you a "reddie?"

Do you want to dance?

Do you want to dance?


No thanks -

No thanks -

Aww what do you have to lose?:p

Good answer

LOL love the username :)

I know how you feel in school I was very shy. I missed out on opportunities with guys which looking back I wish I could have made a go at. I'm 17 so like it wasn't exactly long ago but I think with time and experience you become more confident. I certainly have.


To be honest, I hardly can grasp even a bit of the information people are giving you. I think its more of 'supportive advice' then reality.

I dont like shy girls.. why? because a) they are to afraid to break outta their shell b) they are no fun c) its hard to bring them to social situations like parties/clubs.

I think that's rubbish to be honest. Shy people are often the most interesting and many, once you get to know them, are actually outgoing and do break out of their shell. Once you get older guys will be more about getting to know you, where at this age I think they only really have one thing in mind... Although you do get the exceptions. Anyway you could get therapy like hypnotherapy or cognative therapy. I got this and it helped me a lot and helped me with other things too..

I hope I've helped.

Xx

Im 16 and I was just wondering If guys like shy girls. Im kinda shy and think guys wont like me cause im shy. But you tell me.
I think that guys don't ask the shy girls out is because of ego, me myself prefer shy girls I think they're cute

I'm a guy and I love shy girls. Shy girls are cute.

I would say that every guy is different, every guy has a different personality. Some like shy girls, some like outgoing ones, so don't worry! Your man will come at the right time.

i say that each guy has a different opinion. and different personalities. some guys like shy girls, and some like the outgoing ones, so don't worry! your guy will come at the right time :)

This discussion is from 2008, long over.

Too bad I can't close threads in this section!

Hi. Don't worry about being shy. Lots of guys find it really feminine and even sexy. It depends on the relationship you want with a guy. If you feel happy with a 'girlie' role where the guy looks after you, being shy can be a real advantage!

Two thousand threads and this person signs on and answers one question - from 2008.

Man this is old! But anyway. I am a shy girl myself, but I've. Always understood like this : if a guy sees a cute girl and she ends up being shy, he thinks it's cute. Like a little innocent girl... idk what goes on in a guys brain.

I'm shy at school because the boys in my class are scary they throw balls around the room when my teacher goes out the call girls fat and make fun of what they like and at school I don't smile or laugh and talk for that matter in my class people say I have a poker face most shy girls at just scared to chat because there worry about what the other person will say there worry if boys will make fun of them and I watch people in class to see what kind of person they are and when I see the boys they same to like the outgoing girls and I'm just going to say it but I think the boys don't talk too shy girls because the boy can not get though to her

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Most shy girls just need someone to make them laugh or smile because then they don't have too worry about anything and they feel better if they have a girl with them when they talk it make us feel better and don't ask weird thing it make us hide evern more too start with if you do that you get too see what they like work bit by bit

Basically guys love shy girls but as soon as they know you and you keep being shy for like after 2 weeks they'll be pretty pissed. It just depends on what guy you're talking about but being super shy can be a turn off.

I know id rather a shy girls because I could relate to her all my friends are shy they like she girls so yes there are boys who like shy girls

Depends on how shy you are. If you're like nervous and quiet, I think it can be super super cute. If you basically refuse to interact with humans that you don't know, then it can be a little annoying to deal with. I only know like one or two girls that are TOO shy though... most of them are pretty cute to me