View Full Version : Losing trust,interest
kidshelpphone
Jul 30, 2008, 10:53 PM
Okai I'm 15 years old and I've been dating this girl who I love a lot but we just broke up today and we've only been dating a week :confused: :( we broke up over a really dumb thing because I didn't want to spend time with her and I've been at her house every day almost only 2 days I've missed
Well we dated a bit longer like 11 days maybe lost count anyway when ever I'm not with her when we were dating she was going on my profile and accusing me of cheating on her and asking every one on my friends list if they were dating me and but when ever I go see her she says she has been cheated on in almost every realationship but for to me and dannon. I was just wondering was she accusing me of cheating to get rid of me? Was it because she may have lost interest maybe? Could it be because she doesn't trust me:(
KissMe10der
Jul 30, 2008, 10:56 PM
Its more maturity... Move on, Your young.. you don't need that.
AND she doesn't trust you to you an extreme. Its unhealthy.
KissMe10der
Jul 30, 2008, 11:27 PM
If she lost interest, she wouldn't be being sort of stalkerish.
kidshelpphone
Jul 30, 2008, 11:56 PM
But why would she say I'm cheating?
KissMe10der
Jul 30, 2008, 11:57 PM
Paranoid...
I find that the person is accusing sometimes is the person cheating.
kidshelpphone
Jul 31, 2008, 12:07 PM
But were together klike 24/7
KissMe10der
Jul 31, 2008, 12:10 PM
I didn't say she was smart, I said she is paranoid.
kidshelpphone
Jul 31, 2008, 12:10 PM
But why
KissMe10der
Jul 31, 2008, 12:17 PM
You yourself said she had been cheated on almost every time.
I can't determine this for you... this is your situation.. Im not there and I don't know her or you.
But use common sense. If you don't like being accused.. You need to move on.
Be true to yourself.
kidshelpphone
Jul 31, 2008, 12:20 PM
Can I win her back
KissMe10der
Jul 31, 2008, 12:27 PM
Kidshelpphone... Wow.
SHE ACCUSED YOU of cheating... Invaided your privacy! Ran Sacked your friends asking them. Your 15, most relationships when your younger Don't last long. Move on and test the waters with a different girl. Use this time in your life to figure out what you like in a girl, rather then dwell on someone that doesn't have enough respect for you or trust.
I'm sorrie if I seem grouchy.. but come on.. use your head.
It lasted 11 days.
littleme
Jul 31, 2008, 12:35 PM
Why would you want to win her back? She's falsly accusing you of cheating and being suspicouse to the maximum and causing you uneeded stress, do you really want this in your life?
Move on, focus on yourself, on your school and your friends and you will see how you will forget her... hey! If nothing else, you will be that much more attractive to her :-)
KissMe10der
Jul 31, 2008, 12:36 PM
Littleme, I don't understand how he will be that much more attractive to her?
kidshelpphone
Jul 31, 2008, 12:43 PM
Why though