Ok so I have been friends with this girl for almost a year now. We actually met through my ex girlfriend, who she isn't really talking to anymore. We hang out all the time, and even when I was with my girlfriend (long distance) we would hang out one-on-one. I had never thought anything of it, she was just another friend.

Well I broke things off with my ex about 2 months ago and haven't looked back. Things weren't working, and I know now they will never work. Since then we have hung out even more, at least every other day. We talk almost every day too.

Well last week we were out at the bar with a bunch of friends, everyone goes home, blah blah. About 3am she starts texting me, one thing leads to another and I go pick her up. She comes back to my house and stays the night. Nothing happened, we were flirting a lot, and we were "cuddling" all night. Maybe got 2 hours of sleep all night, if that. Anyway next morning everything is fine, we stayed in bed until like noon, and then I took her home.

We went out Friday for a little bit, and Saturday I stayed in so I didn't see her. Sunday I had plans with my buddies, and had plans with her friends, and we didn't really talk at all, which was a little odd but o well.

Anyway she comes over Monday night and we watch a movie, she was here until like 11 and kept asking me to drive her home (flirting I think) because she was too tired. She comes over last night, I ordered pizza and asked her to come over. She was tired but she said she would come eat. She came over, we ate and watched TV. Both fell asleep for a little bit and then she kept saying how she was tired again. I told her to stay here, she had to be up at 6 for work and I had to be up at 6 to study (which I should be doing now). She kept saying she can't, blah blah.

Anyway to get to the point, I know we are good friends, and ever since I have been single she seems to be flirting more and more. I don't know if it's a friendly flirt though. When she stayed here the other night, and every night we have hung out since she brings up how we shouldn't say anything to my ex because she is still kind of friends with her I guess. Which leads me to believe that she is wanting to be more than friends. I can kind of tell how she looks at me sometimes too that she wants to.

Well here's the pickle. I do like her, she's an amzing girl, and she's gorgeous, but she is also leaving for grad school soon. I graduate in fall and them I am off to grad school too, somewhere. I just got out of a long relationship and don't know if I want to be in another relationship at all right now. But if I were, she's the type of girl I would want for that.

I just don't really know what's going on here, and I don't want to make a move and it turn out that she just wants to be friends and the flirting was unintentional.

Any ladies out there ever stay at a guy friends house? In their bed? Flirt ad cuddle with them? And just want to be friends? I am looking for any advice I can get right now!! :eek:

She may want to be your girlfriend but wants to get comfortable with the idea and if it is going that way first (like how interested you might be,). I think you need to figure out if you would want her for a girlfriend or not and take it from there.
Like if you don't see her being your girlfriend set boundaries like do not text me in the middle of the night, I will take you home by 10:30 pm, no cuddling, etc...
If you can see her as a girlfriend talk it over with her and go with the flow.
She may not want your ex girlfriend knowing because they are not getting along and she could make up stories on her or something.

I think, if she is sleeping in your bed, and your in it too... she wants something to happen. Maybe not a relationship, but she wants something ;) If she didn't she would have suggested one of you slept on the couch or something...