Its been 13 years since separation, but ex keeps taking me back to
Court on tiniest excuse.

He is now accusing me of contempt of court for not following court
Ordered family counseling for him and my child.

I have complied 100%. He has money, I do not. He is costing me a
Fortune, depriving children of my support and making life miserable.

He violates court orders every day with inappropriate talk to the children.

What can I do to let the courts know that this is becoming abusive and
Have him quit

Document the abuses and the court cases and the next time he hauls you into court ask the judge for redress.