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zhuliahh
Jul 28, 2008, 06:02 PM
I met this guy in summer course. He is two years younger than me. At first, I didn't notice him, because we sat opposite side of the classroom.

After the first class, I walk pass him to the bus station. I noticed him looking at me while I walked by.

After the second class, I walk pass him again. This time, he stop me by asking if the bus has raise price. After that, we exchange name and made some small talk.

The next Monday, he asked me what I did for the weekend. I told him that I went to an Island with some friends, and recommended him to go. He jokingly said that next time we should go together.

After that, we talk during breaks, he would uses his shoulder bump me during a conversation. I felt that he was flirting with me, and I really like it. Because I think he is a nice guy.

On the last day of the class, we exchange phone numbers, and he said he would call me. I was really happy, because I thought he might be interested in me more than just a friend.

Over the weekend, he did call me. The first time, I missed his call, so I called back, but he didn't pick up me call. Eventually, he called me again, but we only talked for less than a minutes. He told me he was with his family, and he will call me in four days. Before he hang up, I had to ask him if he would like to go to a movie. (He did say yes)

I just feel really weird, I don't know what is he thinking about? Before, when other guys are interested in me, they would initial talks, they talk to me online. But with him, even though he is online, he would not send me any message. I don't want to talk to him first, because I don't want to sound desperate. And I feel like guys like girls that play hard to get.

I am very confuse now, I don't know if he thinks I am just a friend or he is interested in me. If he is interested in me, why wouldn't he chat with me online or call me more often?

P.S
He is not a shy guy.

ylaira
Jul 28, 2008, 06:32 PM
He may like you but still checking out other girls.

zhuliahh
Jul 30, 2008, 03:38 PM
Does this sound like he is remotely interested in me?
Or he is just playing me?

KissMe10der
Jul 30, 2008, 04:36 PM
He sounds interested, give it time.