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bluecrusader
Jul 25, 2008, 12:00 AM
I've been with my boyfriend for four years. Last year me and my friend made a fake myspace for fun with a girl's picture on it. Then a month later the password was changed but I didn't think anything of it. But recently Ive been getting emails about that page since it was registered with my email. It turns out my boyfriend has been using it to add girls on it who have many sluttty pictures on it. He let me cry about it on the phone for 5 hours before finally admitting to it. I feel like I'm not good or pretty enough for him that he has to look at other girls and I'm really hurt. It's one thing to look at porn which is invented for a certain purpose, but sneaking around and going on myspace? What should I do about this?
Sorry for making it be so long
charlotte234s
Jul 25, 2008, 12:47 AM
I'd break up with him, honestly. If he's not honest, is sneaking around using other people's myspace profiles, and is talking to skanky girls, you shouldn't give him the benefit of the doubt, in my opinion.
bluecrusader
Jul 25, 2008, 01:03 AM
He never talked to them, just looked. But these are everyday girls! And not pornstars.
charlotte234s
Jul 25, 2008, 01:07 AM
They're not imaginative girls, if he is out in public and stares at slutty girls, wouldn't you get mad? This is the same thing in terms of disrespecting you.
JBeaucaire
Jul 25, 2008, 01:21 AM
Hehe, I'd say you got a way weaker sense of humor than you need to get through life. Is it disrespectful? Hmm, yeah, I suppose so. So what? Most humor is disrespectful in some manner.
You can make this into a huge thing, or not. You really get to decide how much of an issue this is. You can make it irrelevant. After all, it really may just be a joke.
If not, well, you still don't have to go off about it, even if you turf your guy to the curb, you can keep your good spirits about you in the meantime. Tell him some jokes just aren't funny... then get on with your life.
N0help4u
Jul 25, 2008, 05:45 AM
So you faked a myspace for fun
He got your password and hijacked your site so he could put slutty pics on it for fun
Worse things have happened with myspace pranks. I am not sure of his intent for me to tell you dump him but I would be wondering what he might pull next.
Here is the worst myspace prank story ever
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/internet-web/myspace-whatd-you-think-155465.html?highlight=megan+josh post #5 & 6
hjpan
Jul 25, 2008, 08:57 AM
Break up.
Sounds like he needs to get his head out of the sandbox.
plonak
Jul 25, 2008, 10:51 AM
I see a red flag!! You're boyfriend shouldn't be doing something like that when he's with you.. when what he was doing doesn't technically classify as cheating.. he may doing worse stuff behind your back..
You know what I learned from my last relationship? Always and I mean always listen to your gut.. if you feel like he's doing something bad call him on it and communicate..
Every time my gut told me there was a red flag and something wasn't in place.. I was right.. I'm done with dealing with the red flags.. time us two girls to meet a decent guy worth our time!