Hi,

I am 23 and had my last periods on 23rd June. In a week after that, me and my fiancée got physical without protection, but we did not have sex. It was normal foreplay. He touched and fingered me but he himself was dressed all the time. Only once I gave him a hand job and could feel his pre-ejaculation fluid on my fingers. I clearly remember that he did not touch himself at all. After a while he was giving me an oral and I had to touch myself on the vulva and to assist him a little. This happened about half an hour after I had his pre-ejaculation fluid on my fingers which had actually dried by then. I did not touch my vaginal portion at all. Is it possible that any sperms might have travelled over and inside?

Another issue is that I was supposed to have my regular menstrual cycle by 21st July or so which I have missed by 2 days. My periods have been regular by delay of just 1-2 days but I am afraid. I am not fatigued or bloated right now. I just had a pain in the whole musculature of the pelvis region day before yesterday. It lasted for a day only. Normally I do have period pains too, like stomach bloatiness and back pains.
Please tell me what the signs lead to. Are these just signs of delayed periods? But how could it happen suddenly when I have been having thm regularly.
I am afraid and if anything, how do I avoid any implications at this stage. I cannot consult a doctor very soon. I am in a terrible fix. Please help me out.

Thank you.

Myself I would be patient, you are only late by a max of 2 days, the likelihood, if any, that you could have become pregnant from that limited sexual activity is slim to none. As you worry you may be pregnant the stress can disrupt your regularity also. So I would relax if you continue to worry and you have not started try an at home test, at the very least if it is negative it may calm your nerves for some time.

Hi.. thanks a lot for d reply... I think I was in a terrible stress..
My periods began... though a little lighter... but fine... I couldn't think of anything but 'that' at that time... had almost lost my mind.. feels so stupid now... how I made search on d net for pregnancy symptoms and was trying to match them with my own... and they actually matchd well too... it added to d overall effect..
Bt.. thank you v much..

One thing I want to ask... is it absolutely necessary that a woman would miss her periods asap after having an intercourse... or does spotting or mild flow occur sometimes?