matt1185
Jul 20, 2008, 02:37 AM
Ok... So where to start. I guess from the begaining is a good place huh.
So I was about 17, and I met this girl. I fell in love fast, and so did she. Neither of us where expecting a relationship from the start, but it happened. We dated for a year. We where very close and spent all of our free time together, spending the night at eachothers house was not uncommon. So we decided to move in together. It was great. But money problems forced us to move back home about a year later. And soon after broke up, for a few reasons.
So now I'm 22, I'v been dating the same girl for a 2 years, and have lived with for almost the same. It all happened really fast, we both hated our roomates. And decided to move intogether. So it all happened pretty fast. She has now started talking about getting married.
So now here's the problem, I still talk to my ex g/f. I still think of her all the time, I still wonder what would have happened, where we would be now. I'm still very much in love with her. We've talked about getting back together but it never ended up happing. My mom doesn't like her much, and hers really doesn't like me either, not sure why on either one. She still wears the ring I gave her and the heart pendent I gave while we where dating. She says she still has feelings for me, and if I didn't have a g/f she would be ready to give it another try, she even asked me to move in with her again.
The other problem
When me and my ex lived together she got pregnant. But had a misscarge at 3 months. I so much want a kid of my own someday. My current g/f can not have a child, no matter what, it's a medical thing.
So I'm so confused on what to do. I don't want to hurt my current g/f, but I can't get over my ex. What should I do... Please someone Help me!!
So I was about 17, and I met this girl. I fell in love fast, and so did she. Neither of us where expecting a relationship from the start, but it happened. We dated for a year. We where very close and spent all of our free time together, spending the night at eachothers house was not uncommon. So we decided to move in together. It was great. But money problems forced us to move back home about a year later. And soon after broke up, for a few reasons.
So now I'm 22, I'v been dating the same girl for a 2 years, and have lived with for almost the same. It all happened really fast, we both hated our roomates. And decided to move intogether. So it all happened pretty fast. She has now started talking about getting married.
So now here's the problem, I still talk to my ex g/f. I still think of her all the time, I still wonder what would have happened, where we would be now. I'm still very much in love with her. We've talked about getting back together but it never ended up happing. My mom doesn't like her much, and hers really doesn't like me either, not sure why on either one. She still wears the ring I gave her and the heart pendent I gave while we where dating. She says she still has feelings for me, and if I didn't have a g/f she would be ready to give it another try, she even asked me to move in with her again.
The other problem
When me and my ex lived together she got pregnant. But had a misscarge at 3 months. I so much want a kid of my own someday. My current g/f can not have a child, no matter what, it's a medical thing.
So I'm so confused on what to do. I don't want to hurt my current g/f, but I can't get over my ex. What should I do... Please someone Help me!!