Here is another movie that the name has eluded me. It's set in the 70's I think... It's about a group people who were friends growing up and then they when their separate ways.. lived their lives. Then one of their friend die.. a suicide I think.. I'm pretty sure. They all get together for the funeral and it's kind of like a reunion. For some reason I though it was the Big Lebowski... it's not. But may have the word Big in it. Please save me from this mental torture!

The Big Chill.