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jeff789
Jun 22, 2008, 11:50 AM
I'm trying to get a girlfriend but I don't know how to get one:confused: I'm to afraid to ask someone:( [im eleven] I'm not trying to get someone in school I want somebody I don't know so it will be a fresh relationship between us not someone I know because it isn't right I want somebody that I have just met:confused: please help me and if you are a single eleven year old contact me please:)
NorthernNiceGuy
Jun 22, 2008, 12:54 PM
Don't think you are going to run into many single eleven year olds on this site. I found at your age a good way to meet people outside of school was to join organized sports or clubs. Ask your parents about that sort of stuff and see what's available to you. School sports like track and field are also good, you will go to competitions with other schools and meet people that way. Don't get to pre-occupied with trying to find a girlfriend at 11, love usually finds you when you aren't looking for it.
All the best Jeff
talaniman
Jun 22, 2008, 06:51 PM
You sure have your mind made up and it sounds like a tough bill to fill.
HINT: Relax and have fun with the ones your with, the rest will take care of itself. 11 huh!
ScottGem
Jun 22, 2008, 06:54 PM
Stop trying to grow up too fast! You are too young to be so worried about having a girlfriend. Heck you are too young to have a girlfriend period.
Why is it so important to you?
rockerchick_682
Jun 23, 2008, 09:17 PM
Lol way to show appreciation, or should I say way to act your age.
Do you want a girlfriend cause you want one or because others have them?
Like northern nice guy said, join a club, volunteer. Just live, have fun. Life is way too short to waste sitting around thinking you're not good or cool enough cause you don't have a girlfriend.
I'm still like 7 years older than you, but I just left high school. Do what you enjoy doing around people you feel comfortable with. Trust me, like Talaniman said, things just work out eventually.
It might not seem like it now, but these old people know what they're talking about lol ;)
ScottGem
Jun 24, 2008, 05:42 AM
I'm sure that type of language and attitude {post deleted as a violation of the rules} will endear you to the opposite sex.
You need to learn about appreciation. Maybe that's why you are having trouble finding a girlfriend.