TiltdTaintdHalo
Jun 22, 2008, 03:36 AM
Ok... so I have recently been seeing someone and we really hit it off on the first night. Neither one of us were even expecting to get along so well, but we did. We decided to spend more time together to see where it could go.
The first night we hung out, we spent 4 hours talking. It was great. Barely any silent moments, none of which were awkward.
Then 8 hours, then 11 hours... We were enjoying spending time together.
He told me how much he enjoyed being with me and that he never thought we would get along so well. Said he had wished we had met earlier. Told me that I was amazing. That he liked just about everything about me.
The thing is, that I am pregnant. And he knew this from the beginning. I am 6 1/2 months along. Things with the father didn't work out and though I wasn't looking for anyone to date, things happen. He was completely understanding because he has a son that is only 3 months old. Things didn't work out with them either.
Well, after spending great quality time together, he tells me that he doesn't want to pursue anything with me because (brace yourself)... His friends find it socially unacceptable for him to be dating a pregnant woman.
So, we are no longer seeing each other. We actually didn't talk for a while, and started talking casually again.
He wants to still hang out from time to time, but I don't know what to even think about this whole situation.
Please let me know what you think. It will be greatly appreciated.
The first night we hung out, we spent 4 hours talking. It was great. Barely any silent moments, none of which were awkward.
Then 8 hours, then 11 hours... We were enjoying spending time together.
He told me how much he enjoyed being with me and that he never thought we would get along so well. Said he had wished we had met earlier. Told me that I was amazing. That he liked just about everything about me.
The thing is, that I am pregnant. And he knew this from the beginning. I am 6 1/2 months along. Things with the father didn't work out and though I wasn't looking for anyone to date, things happen. He was completely understanding because he has a son that is only 3 months old. Things didn't work out with them either.
Well, after spending great quality time together, he tells me that he doesn't want to pursue anything with me because (brace yourself)... His friends find it socially unacceptable for him to be dating a pregnant woman.
So, we are no longer seeing each other. We actually didn't talk for a while, and started talking casually again.
He wants to still hang out from time to time, but I don't know what to even think about this whole situation.
Please let me know what you think. It will be greatly appreciated.