8 months ago I fell in love with a girl, we lived for almost 6 months together. Ad time passed we understood we are not made for each other. We're both students. The problem is that this girl is sooooooo selfish, she wants everything for herself.

Although we had this decision to marry, but she doesn't want to accept the fact that she has some responsibiliies and duties before me, like I believe she mustn't dance with other boys or men but she doesn't accept, like she wants to have relations with any men, and as she says just for fun, but I see they are foul mouth, and I feel like exploding when I can't say anything when they talk like this with my girl friend.

I know that I must live alone, and this relation is just waste of time, my time and her time. But I am afraid that what should I do after her? I can't imagine a picture of myself without her.

She doesn't want the other people to know we are together. That's why even she doesn't answer my phone in front of other people, or behaves like she doesn't know me in our social life, but I have to go wherever she wants to go, because if I don't she will blame me for that.

Also She has a totally different manner behaving with girls than boys, in front of boys she tries to show herself like boys, but in front of girls she tries to show herself like a lady.

And know after all, I beg you all to guide me, how can I make my life separated from her, and start a new life. I am scared of losing her, but I know I have to. I don't know how to spend my time not thinking to her if I break up.

Thanks a million

I know this is tough for you. I found myself in a similar situation at one time. The guy I was with would hide our relationship. You really do deserve better. I know letting go is hard, but it sounds like that is what you need to do. You need someone who will be proud to show you off and won't care who knows that the two of you are together. Just think of yourself!

I know this is tough for you. I found myself in a similar situation at one time. The guy I was with would hide our relationship. You really do deserve better. I know letting go is hard, but it sounds like that is what you need to do. You need someone who will be proud to show you off and wont care who knows that the two of you are together. Just think of yourself!


Thanks for your reply, How did you leave her? Did it happen at once to say goodbye to her? How did you spend your time after that?

I can't figure out what to do after break up.

I am filling all my time with her, every seconds, I can't picture my life without her. Another reason that I am afraid of leaving her is that, when days passes at last she would understand she lost me for nothing and she would understand the real life is something else, not listening to other people bulls or spending most of your time to make other people happy.

This might be hard for you but lets get this staraght... she can't contol your life

If she doesn't want people to know your together that's rude she is probably embarrised that she's with you

I don't even think this girl likes you she just wants to use you to get your money and carry you around like a doll you should leave her she doesn't desevre anyone after what she's doing you to nobody desevres to be trated like that I know you love her but there's millions of people out there

Seriously, don't worry about what you're going to do after, just tell her she has 3 days to get all her stuff out of your house. This is NO GOOD. I'm sorry. You know you will be better off with out her and yes, it hurts like a beach. She doesn't love you and I think you know this, as well. Just don't be afraid of being alone and kick her out. You don't even have to be nice about it or she probably won't leave. And three days from now, don't let her stay no matter what she says. Put your foot down. You can do it! Good luck!