We've only been dating for a few weeks.
I'm 18 & he's 22

He says that to make sure we connect and should go further we should have sex, to see if that brings us a lot closer. Then we can decide if we want to take it the next level.

I'm not sure whether that makes a lot of sense, or if that's just stupid.

Helpp!please.please.

he says that to make sure we connect and should go further we should have sex, to see if that brings us a lot closer.

To me that sounds like some kind of BS... to tell you the truth..

But do you feel ready to have sex with him?. If you're not let him know you're not ready... If he really loves you, he can wait... it's up to you... Just don't feel pressured because you might be scared that he's going to leave... If he can't wait, then you're better off...