To kind of rephrase my other post/or add to it, this girl I like is not really helping me out here, because we talk a lot and stuff,(online) at school she's kind of with her friends so its kind of hard to talk to her with out pulling her from her friends.and ontop of that I think she knows that I like her but she's not really giving me hints she is liking mee too.I don't know if she's just waiitng for me to make the move to ask.

By the way we do play the same sport, but she seems to be busy with practice after school kind of like me.. but how can I go about talking to this girl, so she knows I am thinking about her and that she needs to help me out here.. lol

We seem to have some interesting things to talk about (family.. background) and she agreed to talk about it after I suggested we do it in person, but I don't know how to get her at the right time.. should I also ask her all that once I get her to go to a movie or something..

I know there are some of you girls out there who can help me out.

I really hate to use her friends in order to get some info about what she's thinking. You know..

Thanks

Don't use her friends man, you already talk to her so just man up. Girls love it when guys can man up and talk to them. What do you have to lose?

Don't use her friends. Don't be afraid. Don't make it bigger than it is.

Just straight up tell her you like her and you were wondering if she felt the same. No big production needed. If she feels the same. Great.

If she doesn't, don't make it a big deal. Just let her know you weren't sure about it and be cool with the whole thing. Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn't. When it doesn't you just pick yourself up and move on. When it does, well that's great.

Either way its just better to know, even if the answer isn't always the one you want... cause sometimes it is the one you want.

Isn't it funny how online you can feel so free and be funny and stuff but in person you wig out?

She's just a girl, flesh and bones, just like you and me. Talk to her. Just walk up and say "hey". Make her laugh. Ask her to a movie or something interesting you guys might have in common. No need to fess up with your feelings right away, you'll know when the time is right. Just nice and slow.

HI,
Chatting online is one of the problems with relationships today, as compared to many years ago. I am 64 yrs old, and don't ever remember when I had a problem talking with girls.
A Computer is great, but is mostly not "real life". By that I mean, you have to talk face-to-face with people. Some, and I'm not saying you, develop a relationship online with someone, but then are afraid to do anything about it.
If you really like this girl, then you only one option: Talk with her in person.
Forget about getting her friends involved. You will then become the topic of gossip, either good or bad, depending on whether it actually works out with her.
Please call her or see her in person. Ask her.

Always go directly to the source. Do not go through other people/ friends, etc. show her what you're made of. She will love you for that. Let the girls talk with each other. But, you are not one of the girls. So, stay away from the friends. Period. LMF

Don't talk about your feelings early on. Ask her out, to the movies or something to bite. Try to impress her with your personality. Be funny and witty. Use a bit of sarcasim to make her laugh. Poke fun at things but do not be mean. Communication is the key here. After you go out, do not become needy or attached. Take it slow. Make her miss you. You'll know when to take it to the next step, if you choose to pursue a relationship. Be sweet, but not all the time. You got to mix it up here. Hope this helps. Good luck.

I agree with everyone... go directly to her. Woman like confidence... beleive in yourself and approach the girl. Trust me, the guy could look like a clown but if he acts like a man that's all that matters and woman notice it and are attracted.

Hey this girl is more than likely waiting for you to make the first move. No doubt she is talking to her friends all the time about you and wondering the very same as you "does he like me", "I am getting mixed signals", "should I ask him out or leave it" - she is probably just as confused as you are.

I know that I was when I first set my eyes on my Pete. I went to my best friend, who happened to be friends with Pete who told me not to go there because he was seeing someone else. I took that as gospal and left well alone. After a few months of eyeing him up from afar I bumped into him at a local club and could not help but chat to him about loads of stuff. I made the move in the end and asked him if we could go out for a drink sometime and exchanged numbers. He was not making any sort of move on me because he did not think I was interested (even though my best friend had told him that I was) he did not know whether to believe it or not.

I followed my instincts in the end and chucked my friends advice out of the window. I even asked pete a little while ago "what would have happened if I have not made the first move" - he responded "nothing, because I wouldn't have).

That was nearly 6 months ago and we are truly happy together and I am tryule thankful that I followed my instincts. It took a lot of courage on my part and I picked the time that felt right.

My advice to you is to do the same. Pluck up the courage and make the move, lifes way too short to just foot around. If I had made a move sooner then I would have been able to enjoy much more of Pete than I already have done.

Just go for it ;)