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daza 4 lc
Jun 7, 2008, 07:24 PM
I'm really confused
I really like this girl but she doesent even like me :(
Were the same age in the same school and she's got with my two best friends
And when I'm with them she will give them hugs and ignore me and it does my head in
She's not the best looking girl ever but there is something about her
I lie awake at night just wondering will I ever even got a chance and I've been given all the advice from forget about her wich I can't to just start talking two her and kiss her but the thing is were m8s but I don't think she knows I like her can anybody help me
Signed
A frustrated 14 year old :mad: :mad: :mad:
p.s I don't care what anybody says I know the feeling I get when she look"s at me with her deep blue eyes that you could get lost in and I have believe me I have that warm lovely :D feeling is love or the closest thing I have fealt yet
Plzzzzzzzzzzz help
Thanks
Alty
Jun 7, 2008, 07:28 PM
Honey I'm not going to tell you that what you are feeling isn't real, but I will tell you that love is a two way street, you have to tell her how you feel and hope she reciprocates those feelings, otherwise your on a dead end one way street. Time to fess up how you feel and hope for the best, if she doesn't feel the same way then move on. I know it's hard, but you can't force someone to feel the same way you day, they either do or they don't.
Good luck.
daza 4 lc
Jun 7, 2008, 07:41 PM
Look altenweg
Thanks for the advice but how do I ask her
I mean come on its not that easy
I saw an idea where he wrote this girl a song put it on cd and
Left it out side her window I'm a dj so I could mix her favourites and put how I feel intoo the song I normally do this when I'm angry"embaressed"thinking about a girl it really helps
What do you think
p.s thanks very much
ChihuahuaMomma
Jun 7, 2008, 07:47 PM
I think that's a sweet idea... try it and see what she says.
Fr_Chuck
Jun 7, 2008, 07:49 PM
It is not that you askher anything, you merely let her know how you feel,
daza 4 lc
Jun 7, 2008, 07:50 PM
Fr_chuck how do I do that
ChihuahuaMomma
Jun 7, 2008, 07:52 PM
I think your idea was a good one, but I would actually hand her the cd, or put it in her locker.
daza 4 lc
Jun 7, 2008, 08:00 PM
Look de only tyme I ever got any where with her was well its silly really but
We were at a disco and we have the same m8"s and my two friends I mentiond were slow dancing with her friends nicole and amy then it was me and her so we started 2 slow dance 2 areosmith I don't want to miss a thing then we danced together 4 de worst possible song 2 come on it came on puppy in love me heart nearly jummped out of my chest that's what made me want to be a dj that dj dj p/h he made my night well week really I was floating on air after I know it's a bit romantic but what can you do
ChihuahuaMomma
Jun 7, 2008, 08:24 PM
I hate to be rude, but can you not use netspeak, and try to use correct spelling and complete sentences. 2, mate, 4, de, and together are not words.
Just let her know how you feel. A handmade CD from the heart telling her how you feel is a great idea.
daza 4 lc
Jun 7, 2008, 08:30 PM
Yeah allright I'm just used to texting nyway tank you
But I can't walk up to her and hand it to her I wouldunt have the nerve and skools finished so I can't put it in her locker I was thinking of using one of the other fellas ideas and leave it on her window with a rose
But I don't know any advice on how to give it to her
ChihuahuaMomma
Jun 7, 2008, 08:32 PM
Perhaps have one of her friends give it to her or leave it on her doorstep..
daza 4 lc
Jun 7, 2008, 08:38 PM
I spose but this girl is to good for all that I need shock and awe
But how I have an idea I'm dj"n a teenage disco and she's going I suppose I could get on the mic ask her to come up and in front of every-one I would give her the cd
And what's a really rommantic song I can mix
ladieedee21
Jun 7, 2008, 08:42 PM
i spose but this girl is to good for all that i need shock and awe
but how i have an idea im dj"n a teenage disco and shes goin i suppose i could get on the mic ask her to come up and in front of every-one i would give her the cd
and whats a really rommantic song i can mix
Yoo.. thats a nice idea...
You know... show that you really like her... so that she could feel you.. know what your tryinq to tell her...
daza 4 lc
Jun 7, 2008, 08:44 PM
Thanks ladieedee and the way I figer it I get bonous points for doing it in front of everyone
Any other advice
ladieedee21
Jun 7, 2008, 08:47 PM
Im guessing... ask her outt..
Well dance with her... tell her how you feel...
... then you know... mayb33 izz a could time foe you to show that you really will make her happy... what type of DJ are you...
You know.. I know mix.. but what specific do you like.. hip hop.. r&b... rock...
??
daza 4 lc
Jun 7, 2008, 08:50 PM
Dance trance hardhouse rave jumpstle hardstyle dey are my speciallitys but I'm allright at rock and decent at hip hop I mc a bit as well on the mic so I'm allright but my main types would be dance really
ladieedee21
Jun 7, 2008, 08:53 PM
WERD..
That's good..
Actuallyy that's pretty cool.. because your 14 and you good at this..
The question is... whats the girls favorite taste...
JBeaucaire
Jun 7, 2008, 08:59 PM
Just being brave enough to show her your interest will set you apart from many other guys. However it turns out, doing this will make you stronger for next time, whether with her next week or the next girl you're trying to get the attention of.
Practicing ways of indicating your interest in a girl is a skill, like playing the piano. You have to practice it and the more you do it, the less it will feel awkward and the better you will get at it.
14 and in love... then there will be 15 and in love... and 16... oh, how I long for those times when "love in the air" was all I had to fret about.
Enjoy it now, while it lasts.
daza 4 lc
Jun 7, 2008, 09:01 PM
Mostly dance trance hardhouse hardtyle jumpstyle
But I've never really had a girlfriend before or kissed a girl so this whole thing is a first
I've liked girls before but not like this
Plzzzzzz help
ladieedee21
Jun 7, 2008, 09:01 PM
Sometimes when you like someone and they don't even feel that way about you... people will tell you forget about her and don't waste your time... but as you go.. you can't movee meaninq that... continueinq to still want her... im not saying waste your life over a chcik that doesn't want you.. but there are limits... and you should take the limits... wellz.. sometimes that works... sometimes... it gets the chick to realize how much you care about her and want her so much and that you didn't give up... she'll fall in love with you.. soo I say.. snice she didn't yell at you or burst out to you.. saying that she don't want you.. then give it a try... stay cooll and show that you will take care of her...
ladieedee21
Jun 7, 2008, 09:05 PM
Be brave... you know.. its all about confidence... stay up and be real...
I mean I'm 14 and a chick and I would love a thing like this from a guy.. it will tell me that he really likes me..
so even though if its your first time.. to be actually doinq this and having a girl and you need help.. basically the only help I could tell you.. is that be yourself.. show that you like her.. do your thing... and make her happy! =]]
yupp...
One day you will face this day.. and this dayy has come.. soo be upp and you could do it..
daza 4 lc
Jun 7, 2008, 09:08 PM
ladieedee21
I'm good enough I've my own equipment
And I produce my own songs
I have no idea what her favourite is whenever I'm talking to her I get this voice in the back of my head saying is my hair good do I look good and then ill open my mouth and nutin will come out
So I freak I'm like this around all the girls I like plus to make matters worse she's snogged my two best friends so I don't know what to do how you do it or what
??
ChihuahuaMomma
Jun 7, 2008, 09:10 PM
The word "snogged" always cracks me up... makes me think of a pig. I guess another question is, do you want to be with a girl that's been with your friends? If so, go ahead, but know that history is there.
ladieedee21
Jun 7, 2008, 09:16 PM
Was good DAZA 4 lc
You signed off now... soo imma come online tomorrow to see what's up.. I'll help you out... tomorrow stay on and ill give some advice..
daza 4 lc
Jun 7, 2008, 09:19 PM
I'm back my internet went for a minuite
ladieedee21
Jun 7, 2008, 09:20 PM
im back my internet went 4 a minuite
Hey look.. I can't now.. soo how about ill give you my email...
I made it specifically foe helpinq out
[email protected]
I will get on tomorrow..
Take care
daza 4 lc
Jun 7, 2008, 09:23 PM
I'm online now
daza 4 lc
Jun 7, 2008, 09:29 PM
Sure what words do ye yanks use for snogg