My friend chiara always goes after guys then as soon as she gets them (if ever) she dumps them after like two days. She has much drama with her men. Until this year we didn't know her current boyfriend matt. I spent months and months trying to get them together and I finally did. He is a kind of shy guy at first but we became great friends. He likes the office and chiara just thinks he's boring and not exciting enough for her. But she shouldn't have made me go through all that trying if she doesn't really think he's the right one. Now, she had this other friend matt U. and he had a thing for her but she didn't like him at least that's what she told me. Little did we know like after about barely a month of them going out she cheated on her boyfriend matt with the hideous matt U. how dare she makeout with him? I talked to her boyfriend matt and discussed her selfish act and who's side shold I be on people please be the judge. I told chiara that if she messed this one up I would have to be honest with the guy and tell him she has done it before. So what shall I do?

I would butt out of her relationships as either enabler or breakerupper. Let her suffer the consequences of her actions. Live your own life and dance around her.

I agree with homegirl, she is grown and can do as she pleases. Let her make her own dicisions and stay away from her business and then you don't have to choose sides.

Why set up a nice guy with this flake anyway?

Agree with tal & wondergirl... stay out of it.. thats none of your businees... dont keep getting involved & let her make her own decisions and live with the consecuences