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parisdancedream
May 26, 2008, 12:34 AM
My ex boyfriend and I broke up 2 years ago. We ended without any fights and no problems unsolved. Now he has a girlfriend that lives with him. She doesn't know about me, but every time My ex and I see each other like at parties, he just stares at me straight without his girlfriend noticing. I still have feelings for him, and it seems like he does too. But I really want to know why he does this. If he's with someone else why does he still make me feel like he's not over me? I would like him to not look at me that way if he's with her already, but is it possible that he still has feelings for me. Please help me with your opinions.

confused1145
May 26, 2008, 07:20 AM
He may still have feelings for you. Seeing you may bring back memories. If you don't like him starring at you, try to avoid him. If possible.

JBeaucaire
May 26, 2008, 09:40 AM
He DOES still have feelings, and memories. Irrelevant ones, right?

I bet you have feelings, too. Irrelevant ones.

As long as you have moved on, your feelings about the past are for reference only. They don't go away, probably never will. I can STILL clearly tap into my love for girls from 30 years ago.

This is good.

Don't sweat it. This is all normal. It takes two to stare, though. If you're not staring back, you don't even know. Take the time to tell him to cut it out, or skip those events altogether.