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godsbabygirl267
May 20, 2008, 02:40 PM
So, there's a guy. Are you really surprised? Well, we've been talking for a while and I think I may still really care about him. My delimma is this. Well, he has a girlfriend. And one night we were talking and he told me he loved me. What!? How do I deal with this. So, I told him how I felt and everything. He went on to say that he didn't even like his girlfriend and that he really did love me. Well, I, stupidly expected him to break up with her, for me. Didn't happen, then his girlfriend asked me what was going on between us and I had to tell her. I just don't do well with guilt. So, she understood and was a bit angry, and of course it was all my fault and he was forgiven. It happens. Well, now after he chose her over me, he is trying to talk to me. WHat do I do? He already broke my heart once, I don't like reruns. How can I, no what can I do?

liz28
May 20, 2008, 03:11 PM
Leave him alone, don't talk to him. He always his choose so let him stay with his girlfriend, remember she already approach you, you don't want her to do it again. This guy seems to be lying and must trying to play both of you or just confuse so don't even get involve. How old are you?

godsbabygirl267
May 20, 2008, 03:14 PM
I am 14 and he is 15. His girlfriend is 15 too.

JBeaucaire
May 20, 2008, 11:11 PM
Tell him if he has anything to say to you, he should say it in writing.

When he gives it to you, give it to his girlfriend without opening it. Tell her you're sorry, but can't figure out how to get him to leave you alone, and didn't want to read this without her permission.

ladieedee21
May 21, 2008, 07:25 AM
Don't ruin a relationship. If he really loves you, he wouldve dumped his girlfriend and went to you. Meaning he wouldve chosen you over her and dated you..
Just try to find some other guy..
Ruining a relationship can cause many problems... I don't think you would like some chick ruining your bab333/Man.. meaning getting your 1 and only bab33/Man to another chickk and that "1 and only Bab33/Man, losing feellings of you and gaining feelings over the new chick.

godsbabygirl267
May 21, 2008, 02:26 PM
Ok, I think you are all correct. ANd I will get over him. I guess he couldn't have loved me, or else he would have been man enough to leave her. Well, thank you all.

ladieedee21
May 21, 2008, 02:41 PM
Ok, i think you are all correct. ANd i will get over him. I guess he couldnt have loved me, or else he would have been man enough to leave her. Well, thank you all.

Iz all good... that's all for you to underst and know what the right thing to do.
Good luck!=]]
Take caree..

ItzDatChik Bby
May 26, 2008, 07:19 AM
Tell him nothing can go on between you to as much as he says that he loves you try to resist is I know I mite be hard but you mite have to ¬¬¬:confused: