This is about my friend. We went on a vacation together, she criticized me many times on the vacation. She got angry at me for feeding a cat, she also got angry at me for calling my son and boyfriend while we were on vacation, she said if I was on a vacation I should not call home, my son has seizures and I was worried about him, my son told me he was not feeling well and she said he was just trying to get my attention. She said I was codependent because I had to call my boyfriend. She kept borrowing my things the whole time, at the end I let her have it and said she was codependent herself. I feel somewhat bad for telling her what I think but by the end I couldn't hold it in any longer. We have not spoken since this vacation. By the way since we have been friends we used to do many things together and it seemed like every time we would go out to eat or whatever we did she seemed to "forget" her wallet and I would have to foot the bill many times. She has not been all bad, she has supported me through many hard times but my feelings have changed since this vacation. Am I wrong for speaking up to her?

Not at all. The way she was acting made her seem like she wasn't a friend at all. Its your decision to call your family when your on vacation, not hers. Even if you were calling them just a little too much for her liking, it isn't her job to tell you not to.

I personally hate pushy friends like that. It can be really trying to have them constantly harassing you about calling your girlfriend, or hanging out with certain people they don't like.

You did the right thing.