vaartstudent
May 18, 2008, 12:33 PM
I met this guy online and he got this girl pregnant and they were broken up. When I met him he said he thought she lied about the pregnancy because last time she called she said she was going to have a abortion and he thought that was her excuse to get out of lying about being pregnant to get him back.
I ended up knowing the girl through my friend. I met her and she was pregnant and she was very sick. The pregnancy was high risk and she carried it to term. She said she didn't not call him after she left the message about the abortion because he had stopped calling her back about a month before that and she thought if he didn't try to stop her then he didn't care.
The baby was premature and has a lot of problems. She knew there were problems before the baby was born but she wouldn't have the abortiom. The mother is also very sick and having the baby really stressed her body out and now she has emotional problems from the baby being sick. I heard from a friend that she had post partum depression but she didn't tell me that so I don't know for sure. I also heard from the same friend she was drinking now and using lots of drugs to deal with the stress.
When I first met this guy he told me how she was acting why they broke up and I said it sounded like she was cheating. I put the idea in his head and he told me he never considered it before but I only said that because I did not know the whole story.
When she had the baby she had a friend call to tell him. He never showed up to see the baby. The baby is one month old and still in the hospital. He won't go and I heard from many people it's because he thinks it isn't his and he just doesn't like her and doesn't want to see her.
I had a baby myself when I was a teenager so I feel so bad about the whole thing because I made it worse by telling him she could be cheating.He says he hasn't seen any proof and she says she's not showing him anything if he won't ask because he's just going to have some other excuse then. I know she had the baby because I saw the pictures and hospital papers but that doesn't prove it is his.
She just wants to give up on him. She makes much more than him and so this is not about about child support. I told her it has to be illegal to not show him proof. She says she has notified him because the friend called twice and she asked him in many mails to do parenity testing but he just ignores her. Is what she is doing illegal? Doesn't she have to do more than just tell him there is a baby? I feel like I need to fix this because I put the doubt in his head in the beginning by mistake.
I ended up knowing the girl through my friend. I met her and she was pregnant and she was very sick. The pregnancy was high risk and she carried it to term. She said she didn't not call him after she left the message about the abortion because he had stopped calling her back about a month before that and she thought if he didn't try to stop her then he didn't care.
The baby was premature and has a lot of problems. She knew there were problems before the baby was born but she wouldn't have the abortiom. The mother is also very sick and having the baby really stressed her body out and now she has emotional problems from the baby being sick. I heard from a friend that she had post partum depression but she didn't tell me that so I don't know for sure. I also heard from the same friend she was drinking now and using lots of drugs to deal with the stress.
When I first met this guy he told me how she was acting why they broke up and I said it sounded like she was cheating. I put the idea in his head and he told me he never considered it before but I only said that because I did not know the whole story.
When she had the baby she had a friend call to tell him. He never showed up to see the baby. The baby is one month old and still in the hospital. He won't go and I heard from many people it's because he thinks it isn't his and he just doesn't like her and doesn't want to see her.
I had a baby myself when I was a teenager so I feel so bad about the whole thing because I made it worse by telling him she could be cheating.He says he hasn't seen any proof and she says she's not showing him anything if he won't ask because he's just going to have some other excuse then. I know she had the baby because I saw the pictures and hospital papers but that doesn't prove it is his.
She just wants to give up on him. She makes much more than him and so this is not about about child support. I told her it has to be illegal to not show him proof. She says she has notified him because the friend called twice and she asked him in many mails to do parenity testing but he just ignores her. Is what she is doing illegal? Doesn't she have to do more than just tell him there is a baby? I feel like I need to fix this because I put the doubt in his head in the beginning by mistake.