purplelilmunster
May 12, 2008, 07:21 PM
Okay so this has been bothering me and I know I should just ask him but its too late now.
There is a guy that used to like me about a year ago and at the time I was not trying to get into a relationship and I was uninterested so I turned him down.
We stopped talking for a short while because of it but then recently we started talking. I grew up as a person and wanted a relationship finally and he came at the right time. So for a short bit me and him got close and talked and hung out all the time. Some problems that I noticed was that he would never tell his friends he was with me (I believe they are mad at me for the beginning of the year). So one day I stayed at his place an nothing happened, we just cuddled and made out and it was very romantic. He said that he would call me the next day to hang out again. He never did. I called him and he said he had to study and he would call me later that night.
He didn't and so I called him and he said he couldn't meet up while sounding a little ed up.
He said we would hang out the next day (this is the day he was leaving school to go home) he didn't call all day so I called him and asked him if we were going to meet up and he said "sure" and that he would call me at some point. I was a little aggravated but I was sure he was going to call.
He did not. I knew when he was leaving town so I texted him bye and said have a good summer and that my friends also said bye. He texts back 'bye'
It sucked like hell. He is in the army reserves and he was leaving to go to basic training on Monday. He never called me from Friday to Sunday when he hung out everyday. (and not excessively just a few hours a day and then we did our own thing) and I couldn't just let him leave without saying goodbye so I called him Sunday night to say bye and He was nice and polite but somewhat cold and I was going to ask him what was up between us but I could not because he was at a family dinner.
He is gone now till July and I don't know what happened between when he dropped me off from his place to now. He used to tell me he would write me from basic and call just to talk. Now I feel like I there is nothing. I liked him a lot to the point I was going to ask him out. This is annoying and stressful and I just don't see what went wrong...
There is a guy that used to like me about a year ago and at the time I was not trying to get into a relationship and I was uninterested so I turned him down.
We stopped talking for a short while because of it but then recently we started talking. I grew up as a person and wanted a relationship finally and he came at the right time. So for a short bit me and him got close and talked and hung out all the time. Some problems that I noticed was that he would never tell his friends he was with me (I believe they are mad at me for the beginning of the year). So one day I stayed at his place an nothing happened, we just cuddled and made out and it was very romantic. He said that he would call me the next day to hang out again. He never did. I called him and he said he had to study and he would call me later that night.
He didn't and so I called him and he said he couldn't meet up while sounding a little ed up.
He said we would hang out the next day (this is the day he was leaving school to go home) he didn't call all day so I called him and asked him if we were going to meet up and he said "sure" and that he would call me at some point. I was a little aggravated but I was sure he was going to call.
He did not. I knew when he was leaving town so I texted him bye and said have a good summer and that my friends also said bye. He texts back 'bye'
It sucked like hell. He is in the army reserves and he was leaving to go to basic training on Monday. He never called me from Friday to Sunday when he hung out everyday. (and not excessively just a few hours a day and then we did our own thing) and I couldn't just let him leave without saying goodbye so I called him Sunday night to say bye and He was nice and polite but somewhat cold and I was going to ask him what was up between us but I could not because he was at a family dinner.
He is gone now till July and I don't know what happened between when he dropped me off from his place to now. He used to tell me he would write me from basic and call just to talk. Now I feel like I there is nothing. I liked him a lot to the point I was going to ask him out. This is annoying and stressful and I just don't see what went wrong...