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carrie2008
May 2, 2008, 02:58 PM
I am 18 years old and 5 months pregnant. Me and my boyfriend have been having a lot of problems latley and I'm debating weather or not I should break things off with him. I just don't think its going to last. I think he's cheating on me or talking to someone else I'm I'm going crazi:eek:

miller3
May 2, 2008, 03:31 PM
I think you need to talk things out with him, feel him out, find out what the truth is to your curiousity, then you can decide what you need to do.

JBeaucaire
May 2, 2008, 11:21 PM
If you think he's doing these things, it's more likely he IS than he isn't. We can only guess, but that's my reminder.

Meanwhile, you really have bigger fish to fry than your boyfriend issues. That baby needs your undivided attention... preferably the undivided attention of two mature adults who are ready and able to raise him. Make sure you give this child every chance at a great life.

Make sure you seriously consider all your options, including adoption. Both your life and the child's could potentially be 1000% better over the next 20 years if you're strong enough to seriously consider it.

Otherwise, give this child your full attention starting now. It is critical.

Good luck.

Clough
May 2, 2008, 11:40 PM
If you are five months pregnant, I am sure that you are thinking a lot of things that you wouldn't normally think if you were not pregnant because of the changes that your body is going through.

It would be helpful to know what kind of problems that you and your boyfriend have been having in order to give you the best advice here. Depending on what the problems are, there may be people here who have already been challenged by similar issues and may be able to help the two of you to turn the potential "scars into stars" so to speak.

JoeCanada76
May 2, 2008, 11:41 PM
Talking to someone else does not necessarily mean that it means cheating.
You and your boyfriend need to have a huge open discussion. Your 5 months pregnant. Focus on staying healthy physically and emotionally. Has this started since the pregnancy the problems? Or afterwards? Hormones might have partly to do with the way your feeling.

talaniman
May 3, 2008, 10:10 AM
Do you have a support system of trusted people around you? If so, forget everything, except being healthy, and bringing a healthy child into this world. Everything else can be dealt with afterwards. That includes the babie's daddy.